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I'm about 5'10" and I wear heels.
I know what you mean. Wearing heels in a see of shorter women can be a little uncomfortable, but once you get rid of that initial :/ feeling, and carry yourself with confidence and a bit of sass, you'll love it. I used to only wear small heels cos I was self conscious, but now I rock 3-4" ones with no reservations.
If you're looking to be approached, it's true that some guys will be too intimidated by, or not comfortable with, your height. But others will LOVE it - more likely the taller guys.
But the absolute WORST thing to see is a tall girl hunching down in an effort to appear shorter. If you're going to wear heels, stand tall and proud and think about how freaking good you look.