But I was chubby, meaning extra belly, really round face, really thick thighs...Well not Good in My opinion like lazy with My body...
So I lost weight gained muscles, now I am pretty healthy, but also meant My face isn't so round, So not So cute looking and My boobs got really small used to be a 34b now its a 32a I still have meat on the bones still curvy but different and I feel I don't attract as much looks from guys as I did before Even though I hear from the Girls you look great you look hot...
Guys look and turn heads but I feel is not as much as it used to be...
So guys are more into chubby looking Girls or its My lack of boobs, what's your theory?
Maybe I am just paranoid...
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Well it's hard to say without some before and after pictures to give me a better idea. Also I'm a little unclear what the BMP is. I wonder if it's anything like the BMI chart. Still I'll see what I can tell you.
First off, if the BMP you mentioned is anything like the BMI, then don't worry too much. While that system isn't terrible, it's been proven again and again that it's got some severe flaws. So don't rely too heavily on it. But anyway, being chubby really isn't a bad thing to everyone. As you can see, you had a lot of guys interested when you had that extra weight. Still you shouldn't worry too much. I do think that there is a chance that it's all in your head. You probably look fine, and you're just adJusting to what you look like now.
Your breasts? Don't worry too much about that either. I've never cared much about breast size, and going by all answers to the many, many questions on this site, asking if guys care about breast size, it looks like a lot of other guys don't care either. Oh sure we sometimes get distracted by huge breasts, but ultimately, I've found guys don't find it that important. Sure they're less noticeable when smaller, but they can still look really nice, and I personally always liked them even when in an A-Cup.
I used to have a girlfriend who was just a little chubby, and she had nice curves, and an A-Cup. She had the lowest self esteem about her body. I rather liked it though. I thought she was beautiful. Her low self esteem was pretty sad. Sometimes even annoying.
But I digress.
Anyway, no matter what your body type, there's someone out there for you. Someone will find you beautiful, and the results may vary sometimes, but it's not anything to worry about. Some guys like skinner girls. Some guys are chubby chasers, and those guys might not be as into you as before, but if you're a little in between like you are now, then there's still a bunch of guys who notice you. It happens. Your breasts are not that important, in the long run. I'm sure whoever you end up dating will just be happy to see your breasts, period, whatever the size.
Don't worry. I'm sure you look fine. Maybe even great. But I can't tell without a picture. ;D
Anyway I hope you can soon learn to be comfortable with how you look. Regardless, I'm sure you'll find someone special. Don't worry about it. In the mean time, congrats on losing your weight and getting fit. I hope you feel better.
Good luck out there.