So what I'm asking is, guys, if you were with an average looking person, would you tell her she was beautiful without meaning it?
Or would she look beautiful to you because you loved her?
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The problem is, you think that the standards of beauty are universal. They're not.
The saying "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is true. That's why a lot of guys can lust after Megan Fox, for example. But you can still find guys who think she's a pig.
And Helen Mirren may be in her 60's, but you can find a lot of young guys who think she's hot.
You may not think of yourself as beautiful. And by Hollywood standards you may be right. But that doesn't mean there aren't plenty of guys out there who would think you were beautiful.
Why is it so hard to believe your boyfriend is one of them?