Is the fact that women like money just an excuse that men and women use to explain why women get with ugly men?
Is the fact that women get with ugly, broke men because of "confidence" just an excuse that women and men make when really its because of a woman's low self image?
A girl friend of mine explained that only women who are ugly or who have low self esteem get with men who are ugly.
She said "At the end of the day I still have to look at him and not matter how much money he has that doesn't make him look handsome."
So the question becomes, all these "reasons" for why women like men that all have to theoretically do with "power"
Is it all bullsh*t?
Could it be that women who say that they want a man with confidence or any other trait. are just backwards rationalizing because they can't get a man whos good looking?
I don't think that's the case because of my experiences in life.
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Women get with abusive men due to low self esteem. Most women with ugly men are either ugly themselves or value something that he has to offer more than they value looks. Not all women are alike, which is why its hard to generalize why some ugly men end up with hot women. I'd say that women's reasons for dating particular men are more varied than men's reasons for dating particular women.