I am still a bit confused. I have been told that girls are shallow and will judge me based on my appearance. This makes me wonder, how bad do I look? and What can I change so they won't laugh at me?
People have told me, girls care about money, "size", and the likes and won't mind getting abused as long as they get those things. Now I would never strike anyone or abuse them. But now I'm a little worried now because I don't want to be out of luck.
Now I used to be 350lbs and went down to 206. I dress better(In my pic I'm in the aeropostale shirt). I wear nice polos and jeans. And I lost 5lbs since that pic.
Any help is appreciated.
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Will girls judge me based on my looks? Some will and some won't.
how bad do I look? Extremely bad to me
What can I change so they won't laugh at me? Egh no matter what you change there will be people who will still laugh at you. Just be a better version of yourself in every way- learn conversation/communication/social skills, gain some interesting life experiences, delve into or gain some hobbies, expand your social circle, and continue losing weight and working on your fashion sense.
I am still a bit confused. I have been told that girls are shallow and will judge me based on my appearance.
^ This shouldn't be confusing. Girls are shallow since they're human beings and human beings tend to be shallow. Girls generally will judge you based on your appearance since physical attraction is important to most in a romantic/sexual relationship as most want a partner they find attractive. Just take a look at guys most approach a girl based on her physical appearance.
People have told me, girls care about money, "size", and the likes and won't mind getting abused as long as they get those things.
^ That's false as a generalization. A few girls wouldn't mind being abused for those things not the general population of girls. Money is important to most girls for long-term relationships. Size is important to some as that correlates with their sexual pleasure and girls already get shortchanged in sex with only 30% chance of orgasm from a d*ck and even with foreplay having less than half the amount of orgasms as their partner.
Any help is appreciated.
Not that hard to get a girlfriend or a girl for sex guys usually just tend to make it harder for themselves because they see women as vending machines where if they do this & that she'll have to react in this set way rather than as human beings much less individuals with different thoughts. It's not about doing this and that it's being someone that someone wants to be with and having a life someone wants to be in.
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