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A girl with style is excited (with talking) and girlish for me .
She has self value, and is not sluttish, she has brains.
There is no defining those terms, it is there or it is not there.
If it is not there, I am not interested in her, not in love, not as in becoming my friend, because she does not match me.
Same counts for guys, guys gotta match me too, and some do and some do, in any case you gotta talk or you're going to be seen as the slow person that doesn't want anything.
And there's always matches, so speak out on what you want so you're not stuck with the wrong persons.
If they're not in the group you're currently in you'll find them in another group for sure, you gotta be yourself to be able to excel, but it can just be hard finding your matching type with friends as with love but once you ahve that group it sure is worth it, and it is in my opinion much better than having fake freinds because you just adfapt to ways you don't want to actually.