Its OK don't tell me things to make me feel better or what I want to hear just be very honest with me.
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A tall, lanky guy always gets noticed, even if it's for the "wrong" reason (i.e., that he's super tall rather than "hot" or "charismatic"). Give people a chance to warm up to you; your facial expressions will go a long way in helping people see you as approachable or distant.
(Of course, this is something you have to practice and is subject to different levels of mastery based on your fundamental personality, which you don't want mentioned here...)
Personally, tall and lanky works for me. I'm rather the same way myself, angular with a few curves. I have to make a small effort not to look like the tall gawky chick when I walk into a room. I find that if I take a deep breath, smile, and toss my shoulders back like a rock star (confident and carefree), people smile and greet me right away. YOU are attractive or unattractive because of the vibes you give off. It's not really just physical. Let the inner YOU shine out through your glance, your, smile, and your posture. DON'T SLOUCH. Being tall is a beautiful thing (and not just because you can reach everything on the top shelf, lol.)