The woman in black..first picture. I'm really self consious about my legs and hide them...I work out regularly and carefully watch what I eat...but that's just how I was built. I have a really small waste...my behind is a bit larger...and I only have an "A" cup.
I'm asking mostly because I've never been in a relationship...and I wonder if the reason is because of my physical apperance. Also...I'm not asian..I'm eastern European...Thanks...and please be honest...even if it's mean, etc...I just want to know the truth.
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Nothing wrong with those legs at all. You're kind of "thick" as some of my friends would call it, and they love that. There are lots and LOTS of guys who go crazy for a girl with thighs and a butt.
It may not be exactly the look that all guys want (but NO one girl or shape is what EVERY guy wants), but a large majority of guys would find that attractive.
Here's what I tell every girl who is insecure about her figure: guys are skilled and practiced at figuring out what a girl's shape looks like. They might not be able to see the super small details through your clothes, but they definitely know what the "big picture" is. No guy who has seen you before is going to expect you to pull a small, flat butt out of your jeans, or big DD's out of your bra, and be shocked when it didn't happen. LOL.
If a guy is paying attention to you, it is safe to assume that he is at least somewhat attracted to you (and likely more than "somewhat"), and also that he knows what your overall body shape looks like. If he didn't like what he saw, he'd have moved on to another girl already, so if he's talking to you, he likes what he sees, so you need have no fear about disappointing him. And honestly, guys are a lot easier to please than most girls realize (or are willing to accept).
What's important is that YOU are comfortable with your body, because if you are all self-conscious and freaked out about him seeing you, then it isn't your body that's going to be the problem, it will be your self-conscious behavior. If you can't be comfortable with your guy, that is FAR worse than any body shape issue you may have with yourself. If he's with you, or trying to be with you, he's perfectly happy with your body, so the only problem is in your head.