That is like me. I have always been curvy and even if I lose weight I'm still thick and big chested. My hips thighs and ass and boobs always look big on my body no matter how thin I get, even when I used to yo yo and get too skinny like I did in high school.
I finally have accepted my body and I appreciate it now. I do exercise and stuff too.
But do you agree that no matter what I do I'll never have that skinny frame, you know with delicate little legs, small butt and all, that so many girls strive for and I used to long for?
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When it comes down to body structure, then yes you can't change that.
My body structure has always been large, I have broad shoulders, wide hips and a small waist. That is just how I am. I have always had really big boobs and large thighs. That is just how my body is.
Even when I lost weight like 6 or 7 years ago, my stomach and legs got smaller, so did my arms, but boobs and thighs were still bigger. I maybe only lost a couple inches on my boobs.
I could very much loose weight and be slimmer, I could. But I will always have this structure. I will always be broad, and I will always have thicker thighs. I will never be small framed and thin. I was made to hold more weight in certain areas.
Like you I struggled with that. I always felt like I was manly, or not delicate like a girl should be because of the way my body was. But I accepted it over time. Some girls are delicate and smaller some girls are larger and more powerful. It's genetics. Some small people are powerful too. It really depends on genetics.
It's the same with guys. I know guys who are naturally slim and they are trying to bulk up. But they can't. And then you have my boyfriend, who never works out but looks like he does :P Naturally because he has the same type of frame as me. He is broad and tall.
My boobs are naturally larger and I like them that way so I would keep them. I know people think I am hideous but I really don't care :P I've come to accept my broadness. It is what it is, it's not unhealthy to have a larger body frame. It's unhealthy to eat poorly and to not exercise.
Body structure and weight are completely different things. But society has a hard time separating the two. So yes, it is possible to be thin but still be thick, because you can have big boobs, big butt and bigger thighs and may still only wear a size 6 or less.
I agree too that you probably won't ever be that skinny frame that you want to be. It's not because you are fat or because you eat bad. It's just how your body is.
There is nothing wrong with you the way you are. Some people have small frames, they don't have much curves and they are perfectly healthy the way they are. Some people are broad, but are still healthy and have a little bit of curves. And in my case, some people are just large and broad and taller. I have a typical manual labour body frame from my family's history as farmers. I like it because it speaks of my heritage, I come from a long line of hard workers :)