Yesterday my husband had some friends over and I wanted to go for a swim, so I went to the pool, through our living room "only" in bikini. I admit it may have been the best idea I've ever had but I'm sure they have seen women in bikinis before.
He totally freaked out however. He immeadetly jumped up once I entered the room and covered me with his jacket. I felt so stupid, why did he do that?
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He probably thought it was inappropriate because his friends were there.
I mean, a bikini is more revealing than a standard set of bra and panties lol - so I guess he thought it was too provocative in the presence of his friends. Didn't want his friends checking you out like that I suppose.
Even though they respect you as his wife, men can't help but check out a girl in a bikini.
I don't think it was super controlling - now if he starts telling you to never show your ankles and tie your hair up - then he's getting out of hand.
Guys tend to be very weird about that - my aunt can still rock a bikini ( she's 41 ) because she takes care of her body - and my uncle gets weird when we go to the water park because there will be other dudes checkin her out every now and then.
So I'm guessing he just got a bit possessive.
Dont' feel stupid - it's more of his own personal quirk than yours so. And I mean you were thinking those men had seen girls in bikini's before, which is true - and if you guys were all at a beach, I bet he wouldn't have freaked out lol - so your kinda justified in your thinking there.