Why is it that Caucasion women are obsessed with being thin/skinny as if that is the only body type that is deemed as attractive? I know that all Caucasion women do not think like this,but it's almost a general idea. I'm a waitress,and it is just baffling how many women DON't eat for the sake of maintaining the "bag of bones" look. Its almost as if,the older these women become,the less they eat. I guess I am basing this off of the hundreds of people I have served here in nyc. Women never eat,o you hear them throwing it up.Or they stick with water or wine for entirety of the event...never eating. And if the hunger pangs become so severe,THEN they will eat. But as they are eating,they make excuses like,"I haven't eaten since this morning"..."Im only going to eat a little"...etc. Or they try and eat in private so no one will see them. How saddening when people in other countries don't have food to consume. Anyway...
I have an athletic body,in which I use to dance,and as a dancer,i emphasized having muscle and being fit...NOT being skinny.And even before dancing I appreciated having hips and a bum.Im thin,but not skinny...nor do I want to be. I have concluded that this is due to cultural differences...? Or the medias less than subtle brainwashing...?
I'm not sure...What do you think?
I hope this question isn't offensive to anyone.Its just something I have been wondering as I cater so many events,and most women (especially Caucasians women),DO NOT EAT.
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Yes... I think its actually selfish for them to be so skinny. They take the food for granted when there are people in other high poverty countries who would die to be in their position and they who have access to food are making themselves skinny voluntarily.
I think its because a lot of them are brainwashed by the media at a younger age to believe that only thin is attractive. A lot of guys base their preference actually on this so then it becomes encouraged I think... I personally like a healthy weight with thickness in the right places not some girl who picks at a salad if you took her to a restaurant4