I just do. I just compare myself to everyone and I feel like I will always be below and uglier than everyone else. I do my make up and hair and I still think I look awful. I feel so inadequate. All over fb and tumblr I see pictures of pretty girls, they all have big eyes, pouty lips, small noses and flawless skin, not to mention flawless make up and hair. I think that part that gets me the most if that I know some of it is photoshop, but I still can't get by it. I just don't know what to do. I don't have thin lips, but they aren't big either and they look kind of weird. And I have a chubby face which I hate because it covers up my face structure and makes me look kind of fat. I just don't know how to build my confidence and self esteem when every girl around me is so god damn pretty. It also doesn't help that I've always been dumped by guys for other girls and it's incredibly frustrating. I feel like I'm not good enough :(
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well I'm definitely not ugly but I'm fat and I dwell on that so I feel your pain. the best you can do is to stop comparing yourself to others, and focus on the positive attributes that you do have. focusing on what you don't have isn't going to get you anywhere and its only going to make you feel bad. look in the mirror and find things that you do like about yourself, even if you're not conventionally pretty. more important, realize that you're more than your physical self and focus on all the great things about you. not everyone has the qualities that you have and you need to realize that.
looks can be deceiving, you don't know all the problems those girls have and you don't know what theyre like.it doesn't matter, stop intentionally comparing yourself to girls you think are perfect. I think you should see a psychologist though if you think every girl around you is pretty and you're the only ugly one. talk to someone who is trained to help you. maybe it relates to other deeper issues that they can help you identify and resolve.0