so all my friends have really nice boyfriends that are a bit protective and I think that's cute. but then these friends wear dresses and are very soft (as in feminine) apart from the fact that they use vulgar language and squeal a lot when they talk -.-
now I'm the complete opposite, I love dresses but I don't know where to wear them so I don't (I hate clubs, I don't drink or smoke...) anyway I like the rocker style, as in ripped jeans and and hoodies and a pair of knee high converse. I never ever reveal too much skin...ever! I have no piercings apart from the ear ones and I have long black wavy hair
and pale skin, and I'm slim. oh and I play the guitar.
so is it maybe my image that I don't attract my type of guys? because I'm really very nice and friendly and I love kids and animals... and heights.
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You are in a tough spot, Missy. I feel for you. You sound like a wonderful young woman, & I don't think you should change into "Miss Priss."
That said, with your style, you are going to attract the kind of guys that you are attracting. But that could be just where you are meeting them too. IDK. So, I think you should keep your style, you are who you are, you have to feel that. You can, however, tone it down somewhat when you know you are going out with friends & you think you might be meeting someone. It is up to you what "tone it down" means...Certainly not dress like your friends at all. I am sure that you can find dresses that are "you," that you can rock.
Also, think about where guys that you would like would be hanging out. Or better yet. If you like these nice, caring men that your friends are with, talk with them and see if they have some friends that they might introduce you to. It is certainly clear to them & your friends that you are a very nice & friendly woman, so they would be able to relay this to their buddies & set you up. Maybe?
It will happen. Be patient. Good luck to you.2