A couple of days a go I might met a foreign student from France visiting in Orlando. I met her at a dance studio, when I approached her originally I didn't approach because of her attractiveness I was trying to help her getting into the right dance studio instead of an expensive one. She asked me to take her to the studio and I did. And later on she asked me to House of Blues for Latin Night. I never dealt with this sort of thing before in regards with other men trying to hit on her left and right. She tells me that she is not interested in those type of men. There was 4 of us in a group 2 boys 2 girls. There was a moment when I went to the bar and got some water, and when I came back she was dancing with some other guys. I didn't do anything, I just met this woman and we weren't really on a date and she wasn't being harmed. And throughout the majority of the dance I was just giving her enough space like good company, just until those guys showed up, and they danced pretty CLOSE! I felt like I could've done more. As far as what should I do when situations like that or something worse come into place?
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She's telling you her type and asking to go places? Either you're her new "gay best friend" (unlikely) or she's at least a little interested. I'm guessing her type is the "steers a girl in the right direction for dance studio value with no ulterior motive" kind of guy, in which case you could have been more assertive. Not with romantic attention but getting to know a person, "we can be real mates" sort of stuff. Dancing with other guys doesn't mean someone else hasn't caught your eye, either, so she might still be interested, but at the same time wary of making you her dancing partner in case you end up better as friends. Also, I'm under the impression that some girls dance with other guys to get someone else's attention, someone who they want to think of them as sexy. Go figure.0