I'm tired of black men outright and subliminally telling me that as a black woman, who looks like them and their mother, I am not physically adequate enough. I'm fed up with black men using the over-used word 'preference' to cover up their SKIN COLOR BIAS.
"Everybody has their preference" is the most over-used sentence of this generation. There is a huge difference between having a mild preference and having a STRICT SKIN COLOR OR ETHNIC BIAS. People, please be HONEST and stop using the word 'preference' to mask your true motives. It seems like most of the time when a guy is degrading and belittling a black woman like a racist white man from the 1900's; HE IS AFRICAN AmericaN OR OF AFRICAN DESCENT.
I find it amazing how this very white world has taught many different ethnic groups to praise and worship whiteness while they hate themselves on some level, even if just a mild one.
For example, white washed Asian men who specifically seek out white girls and say they're more attracted to them because they don't have chinky eyes or because they have blond hair and basically; don't look like them. This self hating mentality penetrates more within the African American community or even just communities with men who are of African descent. I'm sick of it and I'm dating out. I hate to say it, but I will probably marry and have children with a non-black guy.
Black women, your perspective?
Whats your opinion on this?
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I'm sorry to hear that. Honestly I think most black women are beautiful and black men who don't appreciate that are STUPID. I actually get jealous because their skin usually looks worlds better than white skin (wrinkles come earlier on and more intense for white girls like me).
Anyway, date interacially if you need to. Whatever makes you happy. Lots of white/Asian/Indian men can be duds too (in my experience), so just be careful.1