This guy and I are getting to know each other better at the moment. And I;m finding out more about him - but I realize I like him a little less now. I;m not sure why -i used to have a crush on him. He was a hockey player (so am I) and I used to find him so inspirational. And he is rather good-looking plus I liked the fact he treats people really nice. Of course I didn’t know much personal stuff about him then - and i’m not sure if this process made me idolize him in a way that now that I know the “real” him - I’m don’t like him as much anymore.
I’m not sure if it’s the information he’s sharing either - they all seem rather minor. Like he idolizes celebs whom I don’t really like and they are all rather sexy, tall and fair-skinned - things that I’m not haha. He told me he dated 5 times but failed on all accounts in university. I have also heard things about him being rather popular with girls cause of his looks. Idk, I just prefer someone low profile I guess.
Have you been through something like that? - liked someone before knowing them well then finding out things and going off them? How would you deal in my situation?
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yeah it could happen . not something I can recall happening to me a lot but it does happen . do remember one girl I meet at work and though she'd was a good girl . only to find out after words she wasn't who she said she was and not the type I'd be into at all . it ended pretty bad and I've never seen her since . so if you know very little about someone there is a chance you would like them less if you were to find out things you didn't like . which is why it can be important to get to know someone first before dating them1