So I was getting inside bus today, and there she was. A beautiful girl. A 10 as some people would say... I was standing near her and I could see she looked at me a few times, but I didn't even bother to look. It's like I disqualified myself for her, even if we haven't spoken a single word to each other... Deep inside I was thinking that I wouldn't have a chance with her. And I know that they are just girls, like any other and that most of them are looking for a normal guy, but I just have that picture of a perfect guy in my head. He looks perfect, he's rich, etc... Blame it on magazines or other media today, but anyway I would like to stop disqualifying myself right off the bat,and change my mindset. Any advice?
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Say hello next time and ask her if she has a favorite cafe or restaurant in the area. I've been around celebs and models a lot as a fashion photographer and working in entertainment. Attractive women can be all types of personalities. Genuine interest and confidence is often what they like the most. It also helps if you can practice not bothering with intimidation with anyone. Be aware that it is polite to not monopolize a conversation no matter to whom you are talking. Let them respond and talk about topics of mutual interest. It's always a surprise to most people how easy it is to find an new interesting friend who is a "10".1