I'm tired of guys coming to me and initiating contact. Don't get me wrong I'm flattered when they do but for the first time I want to be the one to choose and pick him and put myself out there. Problem is I don't know how... since I've never done it. I've got my eye on this guy and he is friendly to me and initiates conversation. So I assume that's good? How do I proceed? Do I ask for his number or should I flirt more and what are signs that he is into me? Guys is it weird for a girl to hit on u? I mean I don't know since its mostly the guys role and he doesn't hit on me then is he just not interested. ha ha sorry for all the questions.
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It is true that it is easy to make a guy like you. There is a high chance a guy will say yes if you ask him out. The exception is when he is very determine and he really like another girl a lot. I always wanted to see a girl that will go and fight for the person they love.
Also, if the guys does not hit on you also does not mean he does not have any interest in you. For me, when I was 19 or year old, I really like a girl and be friends with her. But I just don't know how to tell her I like her. When she also most notice, I get nervous and back down a little to make it more like a friend. At the end, she indirectly told me she wants to go into a relationship with me but I ended up misinterpreted as something else and mess it up. I was sad and it also took me 3 years later to understand what she meant. (So not guarantee that does not hit on you mean have no interest in you and hints may or may not work. )
In fact, boys that already like you usually misinterpret what you say because they tend to think more negative than positive unless they are very confident or when they have no interest in you.
One of the best way to get a guy is to be as best of a friend as possible with him. Like a 2 person friendship. To many guys, when the girl is a super best friend, it leads to wanting to be without forever. This is just one way which will take time. This may long like up to half a year. By that time, it may be you that does not him as boyfriend anymore.
Second way, just directly tell him. In fact, sometime a rejection is just the beginning of a confession. Of course, there are ways to do it in a non annoying way.0