I understand that women don't want to sleep with me or date me because of the way I look but I don't understand why they can't even talk to me. Outside of women I work with, females who are related to me and girls on this website I haven't had a conversation with a member of the opposite sex in months. I don't even know how I'm supposed to start a conversation with someone when even hello is greeted by a look of disgust or the revelation that she has a boyfriend, both followed by her walking away. What am I doing wrong? How do you begin a conversation with a female when you are ugly?
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"I haven't had a conversation in months."
There's your the first problem problem. How many random girls have you even talked to? What about friends of friends, it's easier.
Of course you're going to get rejected by many of them, even more so with you current state and experience. EVERY ONE gets this, even the guys who are pretty good with girls get rejected by more girls than not, but just use that as either a learning experience or a way to warm up.
Women aren't robots, they don't all want the exact same thing and respond the exact same way to the exact same aproaches. It's not an exact science, but there are patterns and things that work on most girls or don't work on most girls.
You also seem to think that just because 10 girls say you're unattractive that 10 other girls are going to. Yet you've had many girls on here tell you you arent.
Not every girl that any guy approaches is going to be receptive and come in their pants at hello. Not even the best ladies men. Every thing you do counts, looks are just one of those things.
Now start talking to girls, if you've read as much as you say you have, you know what to do.
Instead of being a bitch and say' WAAAAAAAH, she rejected me, she must have thought I'm ugly, waaaaaaah" Really think about it and what you did right and what you did wrong.
Do what works and try new things if the other things don't seem to be working. It's complete bullsh*t that you're failing because of your looks, you would have to be like a 3/10 for that to be a valid excsuse.
The fact that you're posting all these just shows that you probably are giving of an insecure, low confidence, approval seeking vibe. Maybe that what turns the girls off. Every guy blames their looks, even if its obvious that it's something else. They just think, oh well even I'f I do start being confidence, my looks are still gona screw it up. Seek the truth, stop making assumptions.1