this guy we have not spoken for 23 days now... we both agree about the break up because he want me to move on in my life .. he has a girlfriend now... and he want to be friends with me but I said I need more time to heal so he said contact him if I'm ready... what should I do? I don't want to contact him first but I want to talk with him. I am sad
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well he said he wants to be friends so I don't think it would look like you are chasing him if you just try to reach out and contact him.
just don't go into any conversation thinking that you are going to win him back or anything.
personally I'd suggest continuing healing and it's typically easiest doing that with no contact. if you're really feeling sad try to lean on friends and family... but I don't think you'd have to worry looking like you are chasing him if you just want to talk. if you seem desperate to get back together with him then you may appear to be chasing or needy or something along those lines
...sorry to hear about the break up. keep your head up it gets easier. but does take time1