but i have seen some guys who don't look out of shape and look about average and girls get angry at them because they don't look hot but at the same time there hanging around guys who are fat or unattractive
what i'm trying to say is why can some guys be fat and not attractive and girls would respect them
while others have to look like models just to be respected
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in my opinion, it has nothing to do with weight, and everything to do with SELF respect. If he's hardworking and takes care of himself, then it's OK if he's overweight. But men who look like Adonis living jobless in Mom's basement have no respect, and often expect things to be handed to them.
But I'm exaggerating the extremes. If you actually take care of your body, practice good hygiene, and have some pride in your appearance without being egotistical about it, you're going to get more attention than if you're simply "in shape".