this guy told me we should stop seeing each other for a bit because he still gotta get over his girl of 3 years and all. we had great times together and we get along great. I asked him "if you had the opportunity in front of you, would you take it regardless of what happened to you in the past" he said I was his opportunity but he just didn't wanna take it and hurt me while he is still trying to get over his past (which is understandable). but I don't get this: WHY is he still trying to talk to me and have conversations when I'm trying to move on and block all ways of contact? why can't guys just make up their mind?