When he was trying to ask me to hang out I asked him if he liked me and he said "we love each other" ? I'm so confused. He is kinda of scaring me. How do I get him to ask me out again? Or how do I hint that I want to hang out with him?
Well um maybe he is comfortable around you! Either you ask him or say something like "remember when you wanted to hang out? do you still want to?" or something like that, or ask him what he's going to do tomorrow and say that you want to hang out with someone but nobody is available. Or just text him and say that you two should hang out more often! Good luck :)
thank you for your help
Here the thing. This is my first major crush. He said to me "you trying to hang." and then he was trying to give me his phone number. But i don't know if he was serious or not. Then the other time he was like "you tryna chill" I'm like "your confusing" and I kept saying it hahaha. Because he was. I never told him why he was confusing me is because of the whole social media thing. How do I fix it. How do I get him to ask me to "hang out" again.
You can ask him out just... like mention you want to see a movie and ask if he would like to go with you.
Okay so kinda like hint that I want to see a movie and wait for his expression then go from there?
Yes or you could mention that you've heard some... movie was good and what does he think about it'd he says he likes it too then mention some ting random like " why don't we go and see if the reviews are true" and if he is not into that movie or movies mention that you've heard (a place) is really good and that you want to try it out things like that girl... good luck :)
Thanks for you help!
I honestly feel like social media ruins relationships. He knows I added him on Instagram because his thing was on private. When he posts things should I start liking them. Because maybe he forgot I followed him?
focus more on hanging out in real life.I agree social media does sometimes ruin relationships. or at least complicates things.
thanks for the help
you're welcome! (:
This is my first major crush. He said to me "you trying to hang." and then he was trying to give me his phone number. But i don't know if he was serious or not. Then the other time he was like "you tryna chill" I'm like "your confusing" and I kept saying it hahaha. Because he was. I never told him why he was confusing me is because of the whole social media thing. How do I fix it. How do I get him to ask me to "hang out" again. So technically I never said no but I never said yes either. I feel like I messed up. I just want to cry.
If you didn't say no, couldn't you just bring it up and say something like "so when are we going to hang out", or just ask him some other way. I don't think you need to wait for him to ask you again, that's being fairly passive, I guess if you just talk to him and are friendly he might ask again (though some guys might not think you're interested after not answering him twice).
How do I show him I'm interested in him? But I never said no so can't he have some hope I like him?
You talk to him in person right? Just be friendly he'll likely try asking you again. Perhaps you could ask him what he's got planned for the weekend - if he say 'not much' and then asks you and you say the same he might get the idea. Are you averse to just asking him to hang out yourself?
Yes I talk to him in person. Are you just sugar coating it or do you really think he will ask me out again? I'm scared to ask him to hang out.
I can't be sure, but I think he might well if gets the impression you like being around him, but I think you should just be proactive about it and ask him yourself. What did you say when he asked you?
The first I said "do you like me?" and he said "we love each other." The second time he asked me i kept saying he was confusing me but I never explained the reason why. The reason why is because of the whole social media thing.
Should I just move on and give up on him?
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