long situaiton with this girl but i've told her i like her she said she got out of a relationship so I told her we will be friends and it is upto you if you want to make this something more. So what does that mean now
You're going to have to wait until she gives you a sign, and in this case she is showing you "not now" but you don't know if it will be never is the thing. If she has been open and honest with you, and not stringing you along then it's ok to give her time. But just coming out of a relationship does take time, it just can't be rushed but you can't put your life on hold.I'm in a similar situation except I've not just come out of a relationship and am not ready, but I told the guy I WANT to get to know him more I just need time, so he knows I'm interested but still need to take it slow.That's what she needs to communicate to you is all...
just fyi she hasn't told me she's into me so I don't know about that but she went to a basketball game with me awhile ago and changed her plans with friends and I make her laugh so i got good signs. But i'm not pushing. There is another situation, anytime I ask to hang out she is busy and she is telling the truth. The first time I asked her to hang but it was snowing and she couldn't come back to her apartement and had to stay at her parents house. The second time i invited her to a house party for the superbowl but she had to go home to celebrate mom's birthday. I know this is the truth because she was telling me this before i asked her. How do I make sure I ask her at the right time
You can't really predict when it's the right time, you can just ask her whenever you want and whenever she can and wants to she will accept.
she did respond but didn't say thanks. She went into a conversation, complaining about the schoolwork
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and she might not have replied because she might not be up yet or because she is already out and busy