Recently became single after I ended a 4 year relationship that just wasn't working anymore. Never really been single for very long and looking to meet people now. I have been going out for about 3 weeks now and I catch chicks staring at me a lot with their jaw down. Usually depending on how crowded it is, I'll get approached a few times in the evening about "where the bathroom is, what am I drinking, compliments on my clothes, are you an actor?" My butt will get grabbed and I'm constantly bumped into or chicks will directly approach me and start a conversation. I'm 6' 225lbs around 8% body fat, called sexy/hot immediately, and a firefighter/paramedic. I'm not cocky at all and most people are confused why I am so down to earth. I'm the best there is but I'm not better than anyone else. Seems these chicks get turned off rather quickly and thinking I should not play coy and just be aggressive back and escalate. Feel they just want to have fun, seeing what both sides of the coin have to say about this.