Oh so it would be hard if I can't observe how they are with others
Oh. It's not that.
then its just a matter of time, he is going through the same metal process as you. Maybe drop a few hints to him ab how you feel? it might make it easier for him to get up the courage to ask you out.
Drop a few hints? That aren't that obvious?
Guys love a girl who’s happy and full of positivity. Don’t be arrogant, rude or pass cocky comments when you’re with the guy you want to flirt with. Guys stay away from girls who behave this way, even if they’re attractive looking. Be warm and approachable, and have a nice time when you’re talking to him. Smile a lot and blush when he compliments you, That way you are just opening the conversation and actually making him feel smart and funny so he'll feel confident to tell how he feels.
Ooh. So I should talk in a specific way to get the action going
Exactly... he's just as nervous (if not more) as you, and it's hard to make the first move. Those small things you can do will make it easier for both of you. P. S. Don't act like someone your not though it will only cause problems, don't feel like you have to change for him!
Ok. Be myself but talk better. Be better around. More nervous or as nervous interesting. It's hard for the same reason as it is with girls?
yea lol... but guys always have to make the first move
Oh, that's the only difference?
think ab it... your both the same age, the fear of being rejected is in both of you, the social aspect of school means everyone will know, when you are older and it is just someone off the street, you probably won't see them everyday, and don't share the same friends. The fear of rejection is there but if they say no, the repercussions are a little less severe
If they say no then the repercussions are a little less severe?
At school you see them every day
if you meet them on the street, you may very well never see them again
It's actually neither of those in my case. And I'm done with school unless I decide to go to college later.
do you like him?
you never said
I may be crushing
well there is no rule that says you can't make the first move
I can make the first move?
Some are better than none? Boys and girls
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