wow i never thought about it like that. thanks for your help!
You're welcome. It's not a complicated as some people want to make it. A couple are just two friends who care about each other and want to spend more time together than with anyone else. My wife is my best friend. I tell her she looks good in her outfits when she gets fixed up and say nice things to her as well as give her gifts occasionally and go out on dates. You give gifts, make compliments, and go out with your friends. Dating is just adding a romantic part to a friendship. Flirting therefore is just making the same compliments you like and give to your friends, but with the intent of romance.
Also, the other things such as playing with your hair when you talk to him will happen naturally because you are nervous.
How do I become more confident in myself with him?
Just think of him as a friend you want to spend extra time with. If he is already spending time with you then you know he already likes being around you. The next step is to just start spending time with just each other. He likely will be as nervous as you are about flirting with you. Just have fun with it and be yourself. Confidence comes from not being afraid, but doing it even though you are afraid.
i'm scared to be obvious I like him bc I'm scared he won't feel the same way
trust me you will be fine. If you like him sit on his lap and talk and when "something" pops up just giggle and keep talking like nothing happened. it gives confidence so if he likes you it will be easier maybe
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