That's just life
But why can't guys just ask a girl out?
why should guys make the move always? if its so easy why don't you lol
Because it's just traditional for guys to make the first move. @johnnyjay
Who said this? You don't even know who made this rule.
I'm not saying it's a rule. I'm just saying its more traditional. I've asked guys out before. But guys are the ones to ask you to marry them. Why can't you ask a girl out on the first date?
Because we don't know if she has interest
Well girls don't know if the guy has interest unless he shows it.
Fair enough, but you can't really blame any guy for not approaching
I meant flirting not flying 😂
Men will stop flirting if she's not receptive.
ohmygod yess so true
Right? Has happened to me three times.
This is what happens when you allow guys to ask out and you just hope they do
Well I have no problem asking guys out but every time I have I get rejected because they like someone else. And then I consult a nice big container of ice cream to sooth my sorrows lol
I'm sorry :/
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I just assume she's more interested in someone else. Doesn't work.
What do you do then?
I usually don't do much because I'm introverted and awkward, so I'm not good at the whole flirting thing
Well, you are the confusing ones.
really because i don't flirt with someone unless i really mean it. unless the guy is being a douche he should not lead a girl on like that and if you have questions about girls which you obviously do i will answer them
Well sometimes guys flirt, and girls don't respond to it, so we stop.
well what about flirting, the girl responding, and stopping is she no more than an ego boost to men who do that?
Some probably do that, but a lot of the times the flirting is so subtle we confuse it for nothing.
i flirt really subtly for several reasons the first being rejection sucks, if my friends find out they will feel bad and make stupid jokes to try and make me laugh and i hate making people feel bad for me, and i find that its annoying when other girls flirt very obviously like their girl in my English class who asked a guy that is also in my English class to help her with math even though she is an honor roll student the entire time he is showing her how to do a math problem she giggles uncontrollably and twirls her hair other than that it was completely silent because we were watching a movie they sat right behind me i wanted to smack her because i could not hear the movie and i had a notetaker to fill out.
If you don't flirt back, we stop. The other girl will be more successful because she flirts.