Girls, is flirting necessary and how do I do it effectively?

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Personally I don't like to play games I would prefer to just say "I think you're attractive but I'd like to get to know you better first" but it seems that girls want to play games and that my shy demeanor is not attractive.

At the same time when I have been able to pretend to be confident and outgoing I've been rejected.
Is it because it makes me look like a player? I have never had a gf before and am still a virgin.

What do you suggest?
Girls, is flirting necessary and how do I do it effectively?
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