okay so I know this question has probably been asked and answered heaps of times but I'm desperate. I'm 16, 6"2, skinny and average/good-looking and I haven't had a single successful flirt attempt due to the fact that 1) I have no idea what I'm doing 2) I can't differentiate between friendliness and flirtiness 3) flirting or any physical intamacy triggers severe anxiety unless I'm intoxicated. I only manage to get a kiss from girls when it's New Year's Eve an I'm the closest male or being a drunken idiot who can't stand up. I don't want to treat girls like shit to get laid like other guys my age. is there not some way you can just be yourself and jokey and still get laid or something?