Help! I "flirt" with guys I dont like and im not flirting with guys I want?

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i think i have a problem when it comes to guys and flirting. I didn't really realise it before this weekend, when a guy i have know(not personally) for years just randomly wanted me to come over at his place at 1 PM, obviously for a booty call. At first i got really offened, why would he even think i was into him?

I think guys think im flirting when im just being nice and interested in talking to them. I mean that would explain why he even asked(i talked to him for like 10 min the day before). And i also have the problem of not being able to be nice and engaging in convos i have with guys i actually like, simply because i get so nervous. When i talk to guys im not interested in its no pressure, hence im more open and talkative because i dont really have anything to lose.

So how to change this?!
Help! I "flirt" with guys I dont like and im not flirting with guys I want?
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