There is a girl I am interested in, we have been talking a lot lately (I am a lesbian, she is too) but I am getting a lot of mixed signals. One day she acts flirty and like she wants more than friendship, and then other days she jokingly talks about how she will never find someone suitable to be with. I can't tell if I am misinterpreting her actions or if she is flirting with me, what should I do? I definitely like her and would love to be more than friends, but I don't want to act on it when I don't know where we stand. Help!