Yeah. That I have experience with.
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Like how? Tell me what's normal nervous versus she might actually like me nervous?
I would probably avoid her altogether so I don't have to deal with the situation. Then come home and regret it, and hate myself for not being good enough to even say something. Which then turns it into "I'm not good enough for her anyway so what does it matter". All this would still go paired with a feeling of disbelief: "how can someone possibly like me?"My teens in a nutshell. I guess it goes slightly beyond shyness lol.
Are you still like that cuz he's your age.
Probably. It's hard to say, as I don't really get into such situation anymore. I've been with the same girl for the last 7 years and half a year ago we got married, so things are a bit different now. Had I still been single, I would've probably still felt like that though. Maybe even worse considering my age.
He will act friendly... Then during the sit down speech part, he will glance at me, fold his legs and unfold... He will shake his foot constantly. Rummage in his bag. Get up and walk, sit back down etc... At least while sitting near me when I can see him. If he's behind me, he can sit still. I have watched from door if I went to bathroom. He always looks at me when I come back but looks away when I look at him. He also stares at ground when walking... He tends to be a little touchy. He will lightly touch my shoulder when I do get him to talk.. if he's not going 100 miles an hour. Lol! He greets me but then after does all the above. It seems soo hot and cold.
Seems to me he really likes you. Like, a lot. If you want that to go anywhere, you will have to make the first move though. He won't.
I haven't been able to convince him to join an outing yet though.
Bear in mind the disbelief part. You may need to be more direct.
How many times will I have to ask then?
I think what he needs is a statement, not a question :)
? Like say I want him to join a group to a amusement park. How would you mean me to say it?
Maybe he doesn't like amusement parks, or he wouldn't feel comfortable going without people he knows well. What I'm saying is that you just need to tell him that you like him. No vague hints, just saying it as it is.
So telling him I really want him to come isn't enough?
You got it!
I don't think he'd react well to anything else honestly.
Maybe you're right, maybe not. Only one way to find out :)
I don't know. Maybe if we had a chance to be alone but when I see him its always with others in a public setting. What if you are wrong and I totally embarrass myself if front of others? Him... Well I can always just not see again. The others I can't.
Expressing your feelings is embarrassing? I don't see how.
I've been laughed at before for doing something similar.
Is that worse than potentially missing out on having this date? That what you need to ask yourself I guess.
Yes it is. I don't really have any proof he cares anything for me.
Are you sure? Because from what you've said so far I think the opposite is true!
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Ummm... What if she keeps coming by and talking?
Then thats kind of all its going to be is talking, he wolnt do anything risky unless he is 110% sure she wolnt scream in terror
I haven't yet. I doubt anyone is that scary.
aye youd be surprised
I don't bite. I promise! 😁
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1437222-mostly-to-shy-guys-but-a-little-helpSee this one.
Kinda misread it a little bit...
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1437222-mostly-to-shy-guys-but-a-little-helpTake a look at this too?
So no fidgety in your seat or stuttering if you didn't like her?
its hard to answer because its different for every person. I can't say if he would still be fidgety. like at times for me when a girl showed interest I got more shy at first but then got comfy around them. more so then when they were strangers. if he dosent fidget a lot but does around you he prbly likes you
I'm not sure if he does it when I'm not around.
Like what? What kind of encouragement and what would you do? by the way... Do you call her girl?
Well just chatting and maybe a little flirting goes a long way.
I think men and women have different ideas on what flirting is.
Awww! Would you do anything around her? Like fidget in your seat? Shake your legs etc? Would you say anything like hey girl to her? If so, why?
Hard to say. I would probably TRY to talk to her or tell myself I will if I actually like her. It's hard for a shy guy to show his feelings, as I'm pretty sure I've been hit on and kinda interested but too shy to show anything back. I don't do well in talking during conversation. If I'm interested I'd probably try looking at her more often to see if she's looking too and to subtly show I like her back. For me I would either try to talk or not talk at all for fear of embarrassing myself since I'm socially awkward. if you talk to him as he seems really uncomfortable or kinda grinning or maybe even look swearing or scared, he probably likes you. If he just talks but normally and answers you and returns to his business, he still may like you but odds aren't as high. I don't think I would be fidgety either. Just nervous
He rambles a lot. He blushes and is not as nervous as he used to be but he fidgets in his seat, at least when he's near me. He also started saying hey girl or nice to see ya girl recently. We have had several conversations now. He uses to not call me anything.
I actually might shake my legs or slightly fidget around, last time for me I was totally still and hardly talked
This is during class not when we talk. He does blushing and rambling and all while we actually talk.
It sounds like he's interested and just doesn't know how to tell you or express himself. I would get more comfortable as time goes on.
Why does he call me hey girl? Isn't that friend zone thing/
Not sure, I don't think so though otherwise he wouldn't be so uncomfortable around you
I'm not sure how to respond to that
That is just too cute!
You mind answering minewww.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1438461-what-s-a-good-opener-how-do-i-maintain-the-flirtation
Lol! Prob not.
What would it be taken as
Friendly behavior maybe.
Even though I look at her every chance I get
She may not notice that. Or assume its not necessarily her you are looking at. That alone is not enough for a lot of girls to make moves.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1437222-mostly-to-shy-guys-but-a-little-helpCan you help me on this? Little clueless
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