So they're not actually dating but who knows right? Anyway, I don't want to ruin what they have going on but I do want to talk to him. I don't know what to do. And it's not easy, we where friends before. But then we got in a fight and slapped him... But that was over 4 years now! But I always wanted to talk to him again. What would you, as a guy, think if this girl from the past tried to be friends again at the moment when you have a potential girlfriend? We've talked probably twice - four times the past 4 years. And he has said hi to me. So I know he remembers me. But what do I do to get to have him be my friend again without ruining what he has going on with this other girl. Also, should I even do it? What do you think?