Omg! So that's what he's doing when we are talking and I find him getting closer than he was?
Yup. Probably. He sounds like a novice though!
He doesn't talk to women much. I'm trying to patient with him.
What's your method though? Out of corner of your eye? When her back is turned?
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Sure... That's what they all say.
It also helps that I can't see a girl from a long distance with my eyesight.
Lol! I'm sure some have noticed. We don't always call a guy out. Especially if we like it.
Do you look her up and down so she and everyone else sees it? Or do you do it when you think she can't see?
i dont care, whos in the room. And i like her to see it, she needs to see my attraction. Only then her eyes display her vulnerability.
Lol! So you must be the confident type?
i guess, i mean. Why would you hide your desire and lust towards someone, i mean sex and "being wanted" is something we all want, so why run away from it...
So explain the process of how you do it without her knowing? Just for my curiosity.
well first check her face (if she looks my way or not). then look around for reflections or mirrors so that she won´t catch me checking her out through those. lastly: does any other person look at me to maybe realize what i´m looking at? no?then checking out commences. it lasts roughly a second or so.if she´s around for longer, it might be a few times that this process happens XD.
Hmmm... I'll make sure I keep my mirror hidden. Lol!
:D so they don´t catch you checking them out? xD
So they don't catch me looking to see if they are... Lol! I do it when he's in my line of sight from the corner of my eye.
oh yeah i forgot to mention that. we try to use our peripheral vision only :D but sometimes this is a good way to start flirting XD you shouldn´t prevent it from happening.
I know but nerves start up. I mean I've talked to him several times now and its been a few months but I still get shaky and butterfly's doing the tango in my stomach. Not sure they will ever go away with him.
they will only after a few years of relationship or if you completely lose interest in him. they´re a good sign.
I know. I'm pretty sure he has them too so I'm not alone. Quick unrelated question. What if I wanted to kinda force a guy to show he's checking me out? Something specific to wear (not Victoria secret. I don't do that in public) or do?
ok to do this is relatively easy... but it will have the same effect on any guy and won´t tell you if he´s "interested". plus if you dress this way he might think bad of you. so there is no advantage in doing this.
Then what do you suggest?
Speaking to him for a start xD
yeah then maybe inviting him to something fun to do together :P you don´t need to call it a date. just hanging out.
So how do you do it?
Depends on how I and the gal is situated. Care to give me some sinarios?
Ok. What if you are sitting during class in each others line of sight? 2nd in actual conversation standing near her?
Well.. Not class for you but church or lecture or something... I just saw your age. Lol!
If she were next to me, and looking in the same direction (say movie thearter set up like), I'm tilt my head over very slightly (I have a wide field of vision).
If you crosses your leg over would the one foot be pointing in her direction? (whatever you guys call the standard male sitting position)
I call that standing. (sorry if that came out sarcastic)
You know what I mean.
No I don't. I don't "get" most flirting "signs"... at least now I'm down to a mallet from a piano.
When guys sit and cross one leg over the other. Not like girls but same concept. It's how most guys sit. The leg that's not on the ground, the on crossed. Supposedly the toes will point in the direction of whatever you are attracted to. It's like a subconscious thing. Like confident guys do will sitting all legs spread wide is subconsciously done.
Some will and some won't. Some can control their body actions to give out very few (if any) "tells."
What's funny is when you ask a guy if he sits with his legs spread like that and he denies it and then there he is doing it.. Soo funny! Some things we can't control. I know it's a sign if I mess with my jewelry or hair but I can't stop myself completely from doing it.