Often on this forum, the question of love comes up. (E. g I like this person, should I ask them out?). Most people response with ' just ask them out'. Now I have asked out a number of guys, and receieved a number of surprising rejections ( and acceptances). Everything ranging from ' No!', to a guy just staring at me, to ' sorry sweetheart I have a girlfriend' . So what I want to know is- what goes through a guys mind when a girl asks him out, and he is trying to reject her?