before I was into her we would talk about her day and stuff i'd send her flowers when her grandmother died and I got a present. However, she told me last Sunday on my bday she was seeing someone and I told myself that I'm completely done even though we agreed to be friends. I was just trying to be nice. I put so much time into this that I want to try and move on. However, she told me her great uncle died and she didn't know him well but it reminds me of my grandmother and she got sad. Now my natural instinct is to support her because that's the type of person I am. I don't want to initiate anything anymore like I use to so what should i do? I contacted her on Monday before to before I decided to take this path.