How can you tell the difference? There has been times when I've misread both. There has been a few times where a waitress seemed to be flirting. And when I went to go find out I discovered they was only being nice. At other times I've thought the waitress was being nice when in truth she had been flirting and I only found out later the truth. There's been times when I see a girl in a bar looking at me and I'd go over to speak to her and be shot down. Then there has been other times I see a girl in bar looking at me and figured it must be another one of those games and just dismiss it, and only find out later she was indeed interested. This is so confusing that I don't up from down or left from right. Is there any specific clue that says one way or the other?
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Usually its hard to tell the difference between nice and flirting because yes theyll be talking to you and smiling but those are the only similarities.
NICE: vaguely interested, smiling, friendly, etc.
FLIRTING: very interested, teasing, smiling, etc
not sure how else to explain it lol0