- I prefer to initiate
- I prefer that she initiates
Most Helpful Guy
It depends. Sometimes I want to flirt, and sometimes I want her to flirt with me. A flirt can provide a lot of information and encouragement for the person being flirted with to ask the other one out, and it's generally easier to flirt than to actually ask someone out, so in a lot of cases, it's saying "please ask me out"...
Flirting can also just be friendly, though, with no romantic intent.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not a guy but I will answer this question. In my experience, guys say they want women to approach them but when we do, they get very cocky and picky all of a sudden.
I know a guy who said that if girls approach him, he must be above average so now he's only gonna go for 9's and 10's.
Sadly, in my experience, when I approach a guy and I don't do it anymore, it's such a huge ego boost that he turns into a total jerk.
I think deep down guys want and prefer to approach because it gives them confidence and makes them feel in control.1