Why are girls so confusing?

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So me in this girl where texting and things started out slow but the more we talked the more we began to enjoy the conversation at least so i thought a couple times while chatting the girl would just stop replying out of nowhere and then would reply like 40min later so the texting resumed and i asked for her number this all happened on ig i should mention yea but she said no to giving me her number but she gave me her Snapchat instead we talked on snap sent a couple snaps back and forth and then she just stopped i know she's was on her phone she opened the snaps i sent and posted on her story like 20 min ago so why did she just stop replying to me out of nowhere?

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winterfox10
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I had everything explained to me this way once, and it made a whole lot of sense: Imagine that you are sexually attracted to people who are twice your size. Now imagine that you feel a huge pressure to be appealing to those people, and that all of your friends and society is making you feel like you aren't appealing. Now, I want you to imagine that your friends, and the media, who you think are all super hot compared to you, have horror stories stories about those people who are twice your size, doing things to threaten and hurt your fellow women. That guy you're really attracted to, the strong one in great shape who makes you laugh and feel protected? Yeah, if he decided to, he could force himself on you and there is nothing you could do to stop him. But he's cute! That other guy who doesn't intimidate you just doesn't rev the engine like Hottie McHotterson across the bar.

It's no wonder women are all over the place; it's self preservation!

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- MLGbreezy
  
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  Wait your confusing me even more simplify this please
- winterfox10
  
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  Women are at a physical disadvantage when it comes to men. They just are. The average woman stands about as good a chance in a fight against an average guy, as an average guy stands in a fight with a linebacker. So she uses little games and other wishy washy behavior as a safety mechanism to protect herself from a guy she gets a weord vibe about.
- winterfox10
  
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  *weird vibe
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- MLGbreezy
  
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  Great so I'm a weirdo 😓
- winterfox10
  
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  Dude, women LOOK for reasons to make things weird. She has an interest in not taking a chance on you. Don't take it personally. There's nothing against you personally about it, she just had some weird chick moment about you.
Juxtapose | 268 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
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Just straight-up confront her about her behavior and if she continues to be indirect a few then just find someone else.

Many people are like this male and female but you can avoid it if you find blunt and honest people. It is possible since I've done it myself but be warned you will have a small circle of friends.

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lara26
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Try being gay, ill bet you'd find men are so confusing. Then you'd have to change your question to "why are other people so confusing?"

Voltaire had a bit of an answer for this: "Hell is other people." People play games with eachother because they're unsure of themselves, or trying to keep several games running at the same time, or are afraid of failure and rejection.

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- MLGbreezy
  
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  Wtf does being gay have to do with my situation?😐
- lara26
  
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  It's not just girls. it's people in general.
- MLGbreezy
  
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  Ya know you where sooo much help thank you thank you sooooo much for your words of wisdom😑
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- WickedIsGood
  
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  @lara26
  Agreed👍
- MLGbreezy
  
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  You to wickedisgood you where just so freaking helpful really i mean that😑
- WickedIsGood
  
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  Oh, and your doing the world such good with sitting at home being sarcastic?
- MLGbreezy
  
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  No I'm not doing the world any good but you and that other one are the ones that came here talking about being gay and changing my question cause girls aren't then only confusing ones i already freakin know that if i thought were the only confusing ones to ever exists and that i thought they where more confusing then guys then i would've said that but i said whay ARE girls so confusing i didn't say why are only girls so confusing i didn't say why are girls more confusing then guys and i just wanted help with this confusing situation that happens to involve a girl jeez
- WickedIsGood
  
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  She was trying to show you an example and prove a point. She didn't seem to mean much by the 'gay' example.
- MLGbreezy
  
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  I get that but my problem is everyone gave me advice and didn't seem to have a problem even another girl at least tried to help but she came here and tried to correct me on something i never even said and didn't even answer my question I'm srry for being sarcastic and rude i was just kinda frustrated cause girls do this a lot and it kinda annoying also she shouldn't go around making gay statements or examples whatevr like that she not a guy let alone a gay guy and she doesn't know if there approach is different then how staright guys approach females but i am srry again for being rude to you but I'm not apologizing to the other chick
- lara26
  
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  I think you're freaking out about the 'gay part'. The advice isn't for you to turn gay.
  
  Let me rephrase: "ask a gay guy what sex he finds confusing. he'll say guys."
  
  Basically, it's all people in relationships who are confusing, not just girls. Your question is more general than you think. it might shine some light on it -- girls aren't special creatures from a different planet despite the myths, they're just people. guys in relationships are just as confusing to girls or to gay guys.
  
  So now that we know girls aren't special, think of your own reactions to things, or even ask your male friends about why they're so confusing to girls by what they do. It might give you some insight and help you figure it out.
  
  Good luck!
lilmissumshine
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It probably got aggravating no offense. its a snap app so her intention is probably just to snap. on top of that if u know a lot about a person interest is lost

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- MLGbreezy
  
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  I think i get what your saying but i just don't get why some girls just don't come out and say hey your nice and all but I'm not interested its save both me and her a lot of time and saves me time from wracking my brain trying to figure out what i did wrong thanks for the advice tho
- lilmissumshine
  
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  Bc were approached so often that the normal thing for us to do is to ignore.
- MLGbreezy
  
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  I get that and all but its annoying whe i see saw many females on social media and irl talking about what happend to all the gentlemen or niggas ain't shit or were are all the nice guys these days but half these females won't even give you a chance its like sending in a job application so you can get experience but the jobs won't hire you cause you've got no experience
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- lilmissumshine
  
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  I know. i don't think it has anything to do with you. she might already have a boyfriend, had a boyfriend so she's not looking, focused on college, or just not a good convo keeper
- MLGbreezy
  
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  Yea i think she had a boyfriend decide to check out her story and she was on a date with some dude its her loss but its ok ill find someone else at least now i freaking now before i thought i was the problem and i messed up feel like a big weight was lifted off my shoulders which also brings me to another topic
- lilmissumshine
  
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  That's actually a good sign. shows she's faithful.
- MLGbreezy
  
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  Well yea but that doesn't help me much at this point lol I'm not about to be the side nigga😂
- MLGbreezy
  
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  Abd besides Girls really need to learn how to communicate better like seriously some girls just never say what's on there mind and it can be frustrating for us guys yo try in figure out if i didn't go threw her snap i never would've known and would still be trying to figure out how I thought i screwed up ya know what i mean
- lilmissumshine
  
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  It doesn't sound like she's making you the side dude tho bc she's not responding to u. it seems like she wants to be cool with u but out of respect for the guy she's with she's limiting communication with u

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natechenry
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It’s because they’re unique creatures of the universe. They want one thing but want the next. Just like guys but girls show it more. Believe me, they are confusing for me too but once you find that one girl, who is perfect in your eyes, never lose faith in her. She may confuse the hell out of you, but that confusion is worth it as long as she remains in your life.

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- MLGbreezy
  
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  Hope so bro we just started talking today and i feel like we really clicked i made her laugh she made me laugh and we've got the same favorite food i just don't want it to end and it not go anywhere she's just not replying its weird
- natechenry
  
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  Hey man I’m going trough the same thing. Giver her space. Remember, if she or you like her space is key as well. Also, try to not message her for a day. See if she notices you’re not messaging her. If she does, then you know she truly cares about you, if not then, well, don’t get your hopes up. Good luck 👍
- MLGbreezy
  
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  thanks bro good luck to you to
AlphaStyles | 212 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
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It happens on the internet a lot and it happened to me too bro

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- MLGbreezy
  
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  Yea bro its really frustrating and annoying me and this chick talked for hours and then complete radio silence if she was interested in the first place then why even give me her snap its just i waste of my time and hers I'm gonna hit her up one last time but if she doesn't reply then I'm moving on
- AlphaStyles
  
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  I learned the hard way lolz that shit don't bother this nigga no more 😂
- MLGbreezy
  
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  Bro it this point I'm like fuck I've still got little experience and ill just find someone else she missin out on a nigga is all
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- AlphaStyles
  
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  In time you will learn like I did I just don't like it when I have interest in you and you fuck me up in the end
starchaser83
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Maybe she doesn’t like u anymore.. sorry bud

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- MLGbreezy
  
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  I just don't really get why. why even talk to me if she wasn't interested?
- starchaser83
  
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  Girl Idek maybe she’s making u fight for her I don't know puta
- MLGbreezy
  
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  Wtf i didn't know this was a fucking war like the hell people are nuts i don't even know anymore ill text tomorrow if she replys then fine if she doesn't then fuck it
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- lilmissumshine
  
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  If she's not replying to u anymore I would leave her alone

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