Should I go and start talking to her again?

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I would see her in the hallways and stuff. she caught on cause she started reversing it, being the one who would stare at me and all that.

I asked her out one day. It came out of nowhere, and I was awkward about it. We had never even talked before. She told me she has a boyfriend (i found out later this was a kinda a lie. She wasn't officially dating anyone but she did like other guys at the time) and thats how we left off

The weird thing was that after I asked her, I would see her staring at me all the time. Literatlly everyday this would haplen a couple times. She would always mess with her hair as i walk by and face my way and all.

maybe she panicked or was shy and just fell back to the boyfriend excuse. Tbh, i was weird about it and came on way too strong.

Fast forward to this year. We talked once or twice in a group setting this year, and everything has been normal between us. Every now and then I still see her sneaking a look at me

Im a good looking, popular senior guy. she's a beautiful, popular sophmore girl.
Were pretty alike. We both really enjoy art and drawing, we both run track & have the same fun personality.

I was going to just approach her one day, make some joke about how she probably thought i was crazy, tell her she's beautiful and I want to "start over" and get to know her. Get her number or Snap

Another option is to start talking to her and build a friendship once track starts again in March.

I was also recently friendzoned by a friend of hers so i was thinking of asking her about this girl i want to talk to

So is it worth a shot to approach her again and how should i go about it? My only problems is not knowing how to approach her. Ik that if we start talking i have a good chance.

I have really improved myself as a guy since last year (more popular, more fun, dress nicer, actually able to talk to girls now) and i want to give this a shot.

I just dont know how to give myself the best possible shot. So is this worth it and how should i do it?

Approach her again and obviously flirt with her. Ask for her Snap

Make friends with her. Tell her i want to get to know her better

Ask her friend if she's dating anyone first

Dont bother. she's probably not interested

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Answer 1

waynecollins

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If she recently broken up with her boyfriend I wouldn't try to get with her because she's still in a fragile state. The best way to win her over is to just stand by her and support her. But don't over do it because then you can get into the friend zone really quickly.

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Answer 2

NetflixBaked

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I would start with casual talking first and then group hangouts. I would imagine it would evolve from there. I've learned the slow method is more effective at getting the girl you want, but the very flirty fast method is good at getting girls in general.

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MarcusWilson111

+1 y
Okay sounds good.
The inly question i have is whether to ask her friend (we have a weird history, we liked each other on and off for a while but never got together. We dont talk as much now.) if she's dating anybody rn.

Im sure her friend would tip her off and hopefully help me out woth trying to find opportunities to talk to her.

Answer 3

MarcusWilson111

Okay sounds good.
The inly question i have is whether to ask her friend (we have a weird history, we liked each other on and off for a while but never got together. We dont talk as much now.) if she's dating anybody rn.

Im sure her friend would tip her off and hopefully help me out woth trying to find opportunities to talk to her.

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Mangata

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maybe she wasn't staring at you. like there's this guy whom is in my my class, and im pretty sure he thinks im staring at him. but he just so happens to be in front of a clock im trying to look at. or near my actual crush

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MarcusWilson111

+1 y
You know thats what i would say to myself at first, but i mean id look up and she's looking directly into my eyes. And this would happen like every day, in many different places

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MarcusWilson111

You know thats what i would say to myself at first, but i mean id look up and she's looking directly into my eyes. And this would happen like every day, in many different places

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Gregjon83

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Ok first of all she must see your qualities, you have to show off. You have to make sure she looks at your butt or to your abs. Then soon she saw you’re hot it will be easier. Try then to meet her friends when she is with them but laugh only when you or her said something fun and do your cute face to her. And try to see her in the hallway of school and ask her to go at a date with you. If she doesn’t want just try with another girl.

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EM9389 | 52 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

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If she lied to you about s boyfriend that most likely meant in the nicest possible way “I don’t want to go out with you”.

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Anonymous

Even though prom is a while away you could try and find a way to joke about taking her to prom, like if she doesn’t end up getting a date you could be that guy. And if she liked you enough she will keep you in mind for a prom date

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Thia18

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Ask her to prom. And make sure doesn’t know you are pursuing other girls.

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Answer 10

MigzyCaPWN

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Yes but if you really want to show interest, you may need to prove to her, or at least let her find out that she is your only interest.

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ProtocalXXIV

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You can always ask her to prom and see how it goes...

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Sebdcjones

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My take is: Don't joke about being crazy as it may seem like you're awkward. Do say about starting over and put your cards on the table.

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Sebdcjones

+1 y
Not quite any of the options though
MarcusWilson111

+1 y
Yeah okay, so you're saying make little to no refrence to anything that happened last year and just tell her i want to start over / get to know her?
Sebdcjones

+1 y
Yes. That stuff can come later once you've established a new relationship with her. Be concise until then

Answer 13

Sebdcjones

Not quite any of the options though

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MarcusWilson111

Yeah okay, so you're saying make little to no refrence to anything that happened last year and just tell her i want to start over / get to know her?

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Sebdcjones

Yes. That stuff can come later once you've established a new relationship with her. Be concise until then

Answer 16

SmooothOperator

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Be her friend through this and maybe jokingly tell her when she's ready you're available like its a joke and test her response

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Answer 17

Anonymous

Not worth it. You're graduating in a few months. Go to college instead, you'll find others.

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Marinepilot | 72 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

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Ask her out. You can't hit the ball with the bat on your shoulder.

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theman127

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Very similar to what I am going through just try again and if it happens a second time stop trying

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MarcusWilson111

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Thanks. If you dont mind my asking, what situation are you in and how would you go and "try again" if you were me, as in would you lake it clear you like her from the start, what woukd you say, etc. ?

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MarcusWilson111

Thanks. If you dont mind my asking, what situation are you in and how would you go and "try again" if you were me, as in would you lake it clear you like her from the start, what woukd you say, etc. ?

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Emma_240302 | 120 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

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Go ask her out bruh!!!

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babygirl646_2012

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Worth a shot for sure

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2osum4me | 65 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

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Go for it

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Answer 24

Hungry_Shark

Yoda

Ask her out.

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