Like there is this girl who hates a friend of mine, she'd never miss a chance to be rude to her, then I had this super popular classmate back in highschool of mine who tried to bring me down always (in short bully me), This question is not about bullying but about people going out of their way (making some efforts to show they hate Someone who doesn't even matter in their life)... I want to know what motivates them to do so? People have likes and dislikes, it's normal to hate people, it's even okay to hate them without reason, many of us do it all the time but why to make it so obvious & show them & hurt them when they technically did nothing in first place?
Most Helpful Guy
People don't do that for no reason. They have a reason you just either don't know it or omit it, but there's always a reason. It's not up to you to determine if it's valid or good reason. So why do people go out of their way to be mean? It's usually because there's there's a conflict between the two and one lashes out. Don't say there's no reason or no valid reason because there definitely is whether you want to accept it or admit it or not.
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Most Helpful Girl
If they really are doing it for no reason, usually it's just because 1, you have something they don't. Aka jealousy. Whether it's looks, personality, grades, a friend, boyfriend, etc. they are upset that they don't share or have that same quality. 2, it could also be because of how they were raised. Like mother like daughter, a kid will learn from what they see their parents do. If their parents are assholes, they will be the same! Or 3, possibly, they have something going on in their lives, at home or within themselves. Could be trouble with parents, abuse, or their own personal insecurities that causes them to take their feelings out on other people. Sometimes people are bipolar depressive... Not to throw mental illness into this but many people who have anger/temperamental issues are also bipolar. They'll get angry or upset at things they really shouldn't be in the first place.
But it's also possible that maybe you did something (even something as little as annoying them) in the first place and you just aren't aware of it..