What are some dealbreakers when someone approaches you?

Assume you are single.

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  • Bad hygiene, extreme obesity, sexually forward, obvious disregard for respect towards people.
    Never really cared for the "alpha male" or life of the party types. I like a little more reserved personality but that was never a dealbreaker.

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  • Smokers. Drug users. Poor hygiene or apathy towards cleanliness (sometimes guys can TRY to be clean ie takes showers brushes teeth etc but can get smell - it’s the effort that’s appreciated). Belittles others and sense of superiority.

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  • Long list for me but the basics are, Them being taller, overweight, religious, feminist, dull/no sense of humour and being into body modifications like tattoos or piercings and smoking.

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  • If she does drugs or is an outright manipulative bitch also if she’s ugly to me ( I literally see girls as either a yes or a no)

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  • I tend to avoid guys that seem aggressive or superficial cause I associate those qualities with bad traits like racism, or cruelty, or anger or impatience or greed or stinginess.

    I might also avoid a very attractive guy if he seems too different from me - for example - if he looks like he's a vegetarian or if he looks like he is interested in alternative and punk music or if he has an accent that makes me question his ability to discuss literature or politics or books in English with me cause I love to have those types of conversations with others

    I also avoid guys who don't make eye contact or make too much eye contact

    Communication is very important to me so I would reject a guy who doesn't smile or seem happy

    I also reject guys that seem stingy or cheap cause if he is cheap on himself he might be cheap with his children and with me - so if he goes to McDonalds and all he orders is a small coffee or cheese burger or muffin - I will assume he cares more about saving money then he does about eating healthy and that is a turn off

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    • How do you know someone looks like a vegetarian? And just because he ordered something small at a McDonald's, he's stingy? Maybe he likes that, maybe he wasn't that hungry.
      Some of those assumptions of yours are extremely biased.

  • If the guy is fat, if he's in the military, if he doesn't have a job, if he doesn't have a license, if he doesn't have a car, if he doesn't have his high school diploma or GED, if he's dirty hygiene wise and keeping his place clean, if he can cook, if he picks up after himself, if he's distant or too clingy. A lot of these things I would find out after talking for a while.

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  • Entitled attitude.
    Is not a virgin.
    Takes drugs.
    Immature.
    Expects me to do everything.
    Bad hygiene.
    Transsexual.
    Homosexual.
    Inelegant.
    Bad language.
    Feminist.
    Agnostic. (Aka. "Atheists")
    Overweight.

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  • Bad hygiene, not able to have a serious convo, seeming to not be paying attention to what I'm saying and me having to repeat myself several times, odd fashion sense compared to mine, not being attractive in my eyes, list could go on

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  • The big dealbreakers for me are when men are disrespectful, arrogant, dishonest, immature, invasive and careless.

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  • 1. Smoking, drinking, and the use of drugs.
    2. Profanity or any abusive or violent behaviour.
    3. Anything like a thong.
    4. Gay, lesbian, or criminal friends or close associates.
    5. Being overweight or too short.
    6. Tattoos and body piercings.
    7. Being underaged.

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  • Bad hygiene and or gross teeth. Over amount of nasty ass cologne that reeks of desperation as if trying to cover up something more sinister. haha. Not being authentic and themselves too.

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  • Arrogance, poor language skills, low intelligence, aggressive tendencies.

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  • I love how many guys responded even though we only get approached by women once in a blue moon, and the rest of the time by gay men.
    (Or maybe that's just me.)

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  • Dirty or smelly clothing. I don't care about fashion but I would prefer it to be clean clothing at least. I like women that put some effort into their appearance.

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  • Coming across sexual. There's nothing more of a turn off than that

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  • Fat, tattoos and perciengs are the most obvious dealbreakers... if she's nothing of the previous but say she's a single mom, it is the same.

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  • Bad hygiene, being outright rude, and not being able to have an adult conversation.

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  • Proclaimed atheism, pro choice advocates and smokers.

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  • If he smokes, vapes or do drugs of any form. If he is too drunk if he is too dirty. And if he generally a asshole or bad boy.

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  • Not being attracted to them, if they seem boring, if they're religious, or if they're overweight.

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    • Lol religion turns you off what if it’s like something their parents made them do but they don’t practice it hard core?

    • @elite665 They do whatever they like but I wouldn't be with a religious person under 99% of circumstances.

  • Being dumb bimbo kind of girl - u can suck my dick but nothing more

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  • -watching porn in a relationship
    -having a huge body count
    -smoking, drinking alcohol and do drugs

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  • Lies, doesn't like to become a housewife, feminist or fat

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  • too forward in a creepy or sexual way, assuming things, rude

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  • Deal breakers for me : when girl/lady is very rude, disrespectful, arrogant, Disloyal, immature, has yellow teeth, bad hygiene, racist

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  • Nose rings, looking like a hipster, too much make up, or facial/neck tats.

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  • Some gals stink... automatic deal breaker. Scent is such a damn aphrodisiac.

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  • Too many to remember, but we'll come across that bridge when we come to it lol.

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  • The answer for women is looks and only looks unless they're lying

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  • If she is wearing a wedding ring, no thank you.

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  • Smokers and those who complain about life

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  • No one approaches me IRL

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  • Druggie/alcoholic

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  • Being a Turk

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  • Racist, no/horrible personality.

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  • bad hygiene

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  • Bad Hygiene, Heavy Drinker, Smokey.

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  • no drugs, extremely hopefully no smoking

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  • Bad teeth for sure

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  • rotted teeth

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  • Too sexusl

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  • If I'm not attracted to them.

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  • The first two big ones for me is if she calls herself a feminist or if she has a child. Nope sorry not interested in your crazy and fucked up games. Next pleases.

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  • Borrows money on first date.

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  • Yeah if she's ugly that's a dealbreaker.

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