I always thought that directly telling a woman you really like her, just kills attraction/chemistry, as the mystery or uncertainty is then gone. Particularly in the very early stages of dating. Actions speak louder than words, once your dating for a while, and are officially boyfriend/girlfriend, then it's maybe ok. But a man should never be confessing his feelings for a girl to her every day or week, it really makes me cringe when I see guys do that. For me, little subtle occastional gestures will let her know I really like her, then when I say the words, they carry far more weight.
Just curious how many relationships have you had that's lasted long-term? Even though women appreciate little gestures, they need to hear it verbally or something written, like a card.
I like it when a guy expresses certainty like - I am 100% know I like you - instead of I think I might like you. I also like it when a guy is like - I want you for myself - instead of I want me for yourself. I don't like it when a guy kisses up to me and begs for attention.
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I actually don't as far back as I can recall unless she asks me whether I like her. It tends to be implicit through my actions, like inviting a girl out, kissing her on the date, etc.
I also almost never use any compliments unless I notice something very unusual.
Even though it's rather obvious implicitly when I like a girl, I find it safer not to say that outright. I've asked girls out in a very light-hearted way who rejected me and still became my friends afterward, for example. If I had outright told them that I liked them that way, the chance to become friends might have been blown.
And then they wouldn't introduce me to their girlfriends where I can try again with their girlfriends. :-D
Thanks for sharing!
Depends on the guy and the situation...But usually I don’t have to because I make it kind of obvious.
Would you say it's obvious for them?
Yes. Usually I don’t have a problem with guys approaching me.
I think all my friends know without having to tell them
I don’t. I don’t approach men. They approach me. Otherwise that’s it.
I just say it... and then wait for my punishment
@es2049O446e by punishment, I think she means rejection
i go up to them and say, 'lets fuck.'
Ohh I dont do that anymore hahahah
'I like you'
Remembers me of my latest song:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auBgSAb54A8
I’m a puss so I usually just do it over text and wind up getting rejected
Because they will either say “sorry I’m not interest in you like that but I hope we can still be friends”, or i confess my feelings and they just say oh ok cool and then it just gets awkward
I’m at an age now where I just think of we can’t be honest with each other then what’s the point? I don’t get involved in games for too long, not going to waste my time there. I’ll let them know I like them and if they do great, if they don’t, thank you next!
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