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You have too look at yourself in a mirror and let your mind race it's thoughts the bad the good and the ugly like I sometimes don't feel like wearing makeup and going out but my friends really want me there so I think man I look dumb and my eyes look tired but then I say out loud well, I'll take a thirty minute nap I have time, and I have beautiful dark almond eyes that can kill... or if I'm bloated and I smell like skunk I take s nice hot shower massage lavender oil on my body nice and slow and then I wear pants and a shirt that's more bulgy and not so tight and there I look skinny again. As women our bodies change and we have to learn how to dress up do our hair bangs or no bangs once you see what brings out the best of you which you probably do well bc people tell you that your beautiful then you have to learn to accept that they are telling you the truth even if you still don't see it trust them people don't all lie to you and the majority do tell you your attractive so believe the crowds. I don't get compliments but I do stares and smiles. I guess guys don't know if I notice them or if I'm willing to talk to them which I don't bc I keep walking but just know inside that your unique and no one will ever look like you so OWN IT GIRL
Accept that being ugly isn't a bad thing, then worrying about whether you're pretty or ugly will be a non-issue. Should other people who aren't very physically attractive feel bad about themselves for it? No. Should you? No.I'm sure you're georgous by the way, I'm just trying to make a point that it's not something worth worrying about :)
Your self image is just that---"self". You don't have to accept it right away, but just know that I guarantee those people who tell you that aren't doing it for no reason. Lemme give you an example---I find girls with a little extra meat on their bones, natural/unconventional beauty, unique style and a bad little attitude super fucking attractive in every way, physically and mentally. But they often see a disconnect between their individuality, amazing personalities and their physical bone structure. Beauty is a package. If you're your own unique person and own it and people see that, they're bound to find you pretty. dudes aren't as shallow as you think all the time (most of the time tho lol). Like show me a picture of a seemingly flawless eastern European model and that's just not attractive to me even if it's inherently beautiful. There's several moving pieces that people are taking into account when they call you beautiful, just try to remember to own all those pieces individually so you feel comfortable really owning them as a package when someone else recognizes it.
And I don't mean this to be like "beauty is on the inside"---just that I don't have to find cookie cutter chicks from magazines beautiful or my standard for beauty and most guys don't.
To feel beautiful (or handsome, good looking whatever word you prefer) you have to be confident about yourself. No one can make you believe unless you believe that you are beautiful. Others can only support the idea you have in mind.Go to mirror before heading out and say, 'Damn! I am beautiful'. Keep doing it regularly. One day you will truly believe that.
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First of all dear There is no definition of looking beautiful or pretty or looking good or unglySo no one can judge this Don't worry about your look dear you are awesome at your own look So don't think about this kind of silly thing and focus in other important things in life dear..☺️😊
Your 27 she's 18. Are seriously giving her a Disney Land soeech? Of course it matters. At her age they judge over dilly sht. Bc the things that her peers hold of value, actually hold no value. It's sad but true!
alfie, I see what you're trying to say and I personally appreciate the attempt at honesty, but the person asking this question specifically says:"I get told that quite a few number of times that I look good or pretty, but *I just don't feel it."*So, the risk that this person isn't going to be valued due to not being beautiful is, at least in this instance, negligible.Thiz problem is one of identity and self-reflection. So, as saccharine as it may seem, Disney brand "you're perfect as you are" reassurance is actually the best advice here.
@alfiegoodtimes I would like to mention the fact that my indifference towards my looks has started to get on other ppl's nerves. They think I fish for compliments!
Again your probably a beautiful young lady. Remembehis very moment. In five/ 10 years your not going to look The same. That's ok though.. bc I know care or you wouldn't have asked.. when you receive a compliment from a peer accept it. They didn't have to say ish! Not if it's from some creeper just give s stink face. They won't do it again. Lol😎😊
@kelnius didn't mean to be tough. i read do much stuff that's way off. It's Disneyland. I remember being and not getting the girl I wanted. Crying to my mom as to why I was so ugly.. why couldn't she I was the better choice. My mom put things literally boosted my confidence.. that taught me to validate myself. These girls have it twice as hard. Social media is constantly knocking them for their beauty just bc they aren't cookie cutter.. oh and ps. Side note. That girl I thought I was going to die without. We hooked up years later. Why is that important? Because no one has ever died of a broken heart! CONFIDENCE. your beautiful. Say it loud and proud into a mirror. While you validate yourself!
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How often do you do something you love doing? Do you have any passions in life? Goals? Dreams?The reason I ask is because, generally speaking, having these/doing these things will distract you from the fear of how beautiful you feel, and ultimately make you feel better about yourself.Look up Susan Sontag's The Artist Way. It's directed towards artists, but a lot of its lessons and actions can be applied to improving self worth as well.
my life's really, really grey
same old work, same old people
one day I'll have to earn for myself... that's my goal
OK, this next week do something out of the ordinary, something you would find enjoyable. Eat a food you love, or go to a spa, or whatever you can do to pamper yourself.Start out doing something like this once a week, it doesn't have to be the same thing each week, and it doesn't have to be extravogant or expensive, if you don't want to. Just make sure you enjoy it. This is a self date.My weekly self dates are things like getting a haircut, eating a new food, visiting a neighboorhood I don't ussually visit in NYC, and my favorite is walking across the Brooklyn bridge at night.You see, the easiest way to improve your views on self worth, or image is to be selfish. Now too often people think selfish is bad, but it isn't. It certainly can be, but when it's done to improve ones self it isn't. Everything we, as humans do is selfish! When someone helps another, they benefit and subconsciously they know that, so making their action a positive selfishness. In order to feel better about ones self you need to be selfish.
Part of growing into adulthood is gaining confidence, confidence in yourself, in how things will turn out, in trusting that things will go your way, and seeking out all things that help you reach your life aspirations and goals. If you need help with your appearance seek it - make up and hair, get some help with your wardrobe. When you look good and feel good you'll feel beautiful. And develop a sense of outcome independence - a feeling and knowledge that no matter what happens or how things shake out, you're sure you'll be just fine. It's the ultimate freedom to live your life, to do and say as you see fit, and never having to apologize for anything. It's really that simple.
Take good care of yourself, keep yourself clean I guess. If you want to FEEL beautiful, you only need to be what you consider to be beautiful. I mean you're talking about feeling pretty so it has to come from within, right? 😄But, why don't you feel pretty? Do you think you lack something or have something that keeps you from feeling good about your appearance? Just curious, of course you don't have to answer if you don't want to. 😐
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Confidence can be depicted through facial expression. by the way beauty is in the eyes of admirer. Each person has his or her scake of measuring beauty. But for me boldness and confidence plays a vital role in looking beautiful. Some people like shy, innocent girls.
Do some sort of exercise for at least 30 mins. It could be stretching , yoga , or just dancing but make sure you do..Take a shower daily. Drink lots of water. Wear clean and well ironed clothes. It shouldn't be brand new or expensive but clean..Get a hair cut which suits your face. Experiment with your shoes. And wear a smile.
It's not easy. It comes from a feeling of accepting yourself and feeling comfortable about who you are. The best advice I can give you is to work on all areas of how you see yourself, not just appearance... Acknowledge your strength, admit to yourself that you are actually good at some thing / have some flattering features and personality (without being cocky). And accept that you also have some things that are not as good but that everyone is that way and you just need to accept it.Good luck!
Just accept the compliment. Your going to always be your worst critic. But if you are always knocking down the compliment and the person saying. Eventually they will stop. Your probably dead ass gorgeous. It's just your own issue. Plus be careful a bunch of scummy ass guys who will prey on your lack of confidence.
I'm not that attractive either and I guess the only moments I've ever felt better is when a guy does things that makes me feel beautiful on the inside.
I am the same lolI think I am pretty ugly, but it is because other people see you differently and their brain is not the same as yours lol, so you may not find yourself attractive even if you are beautiful to most people.
i don't feel ugly, I just feel ordinary
Don't feel beautiful , feel yourself, you like everyone have good qualities and bad ones, and that's okay, just try to appreciate the good qualities a little more, start by looking in the mirror and pointing out something you like about yourself.
It’s actually normal to be insecure. Just try to feel ok or a little cute. Trying to feel beautiful isn’t necessarily helpful imho
Don’t focus on your looks. It sounds counter productive, but I’m not focusing on your looks you forget about them and then when you come back you look at yourself with a blank slate.
You have to learn to love your self. I could go on for paragraphs about this.
Look in the mirror and say i am beautiful three times every morning when you wake up for three months, then come back and see me to see if it worked.
Internalize what they say. Use them as your mirror.
I'm the same! Just go with the flow and be happy in your own skin!
Every girl I talk to thinks that she's a plain Jane no matter what I tell them they always feel that way why?
Post a pic... I'll go from there... However, understand that my final answer will always be one praise
Dress nice. Compliment yourself. Feel good about yourself in the mirror.
It's not the people who can make u feel pretty or beautiful, if u are so, then there's no need of such feeling, it comes from within, no matters what people think or say
Listen to them!! If they told you that, then you are pretty. Accept it. You don't have to feel bad with yourself. Everyone is beautiful for someone. And thank God not for everyone 😉
Show yourself and after that I'll give you the best advice that you need.
You have to love yourself and the way you are/look. Someone will show you how pretty you are. If you're not convinced.
don't read women's magazines. don't follow "influencers". if someone is trying to sell you something, ignore half of what they say
ps. at the time of writing I didn't realise g@g had influencers. I meant youtube, instagram and the like. if any influencers who haven't blocked me, want to tell the ones who have
Just think about how many days u spend feeling bad for thinking Ur ugly and know that u can't return that time
Put on some ass hugging white pants or shorts, high high hills and a sheer blouse. You'll be hot! And all the attention will make you feel it
18 angel no worries lots of opinions not any matter only you have you and you do matter in life.
Accept that you find yourself ugly, and then try to motivate yourself. Bit of a straight forward one, but it works for me ^
Personaliy Highlights and Delights the Best. xx
Stop comparing yourself to them, or others...If they tell you you're pretty, they are telling the truth. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF
If people tell you that, then you must be pretty.
The first step is believing you are.
Belong to Europe.
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