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Yes, it's.People who works hard gets more appreciated than these ones working smartly. If you works as a sugar girl from you're in your 20s to your 30s, you may make a lot of money that you can save until later. It's good to have a saving. Then you also get your education finished before you can get a regular job.It's immoral because of you're basically sucking out someone else's money doing almost nothing, but on the other side it's also beneficial and as long it's consensual between both parts there won't really be any victims here. Both are adults and both can do whatever they wants to. Drinking alcohol, smoking, gambling and pre-material sex are also immoral and have both emotional and physical consequences, yet people are doing them. There's a difference between making money easily or taking a glass of beer and actually murdering someone.While sugar dating is taking advantage of older and richer people, it's not really prostitution. Often there's no sex involved and if you've sex, it's for free. What you gets paid for are going to the restaurant or cafes, cinema, a walk, to the beach and so on. You may rise the prices if he likes you, but you're not taking money for sex. If you gets paid for sex you're either a prostitute or an escort. Sugar dating is like going to the hairdresser when it comes to pricing. You may go to a hairdresser costing 11$ and get served free coffee. Then you're paying for the haircut, but not the coffee. Another hairdresser saloon may only cost 9$, but they doesn't serve free coffee and therefor can have lower prices. Neither of them are cafes because of you paid for the haircut, not the coffee. Understand? ;)
Ouh common i dount you are saint, so why judge peolle on there own choices? Bessides whats immoral for you is totally normal for other
@Janncis, I'm not perfect myself. We all do some good and bad things. Every humans lies, says something hurtful and do things for our own advantage.
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Yeah. In the same sense that it’s bad to eat lots of junk food. Because one day when you want a serious relationship you’ll find that all of your taking cash for who knows what has messed up your mind & made it impossible for you to bond/be loyal and/or the guy you want rules you out based on that history and/or you get addicted to easy money but you can’t get out of it when you want to later in life.As far as looks women have a limited shelf life. If you don’t bother to develop a good personality it will REALLY hurt you later in life if you want serious then.
Fuck it I say no. If it's one of those things where y'all fuck you he pays you do it. And especially if you're a just an escort and don't even have to have sex with him, you'd be stupid to turn that down. It's maybe a little bit shameful but if shame pays the bills than might as well. I saw someone say that's cheating life, you're supposed to work hard for money. A lot of sugar babies are college students with part tine jobs and find it hard to make ends meet. Should they starve or be homeless because they're minimum wage job doesn't pay enough when they can have that paid for by a sugar daddy? Just because you're a sugar baby does not automatically mean you don't work hard. And even if you don't and you live exclusively off of sugar daddies, we're talking about an agreement with two adults. If a rich person wants to blow their money on someone that's between the two people. Finally, the only thing I have a problem with is if you're dating someone because they're rich. If you're just fucking or escorting someone that's one thing but don't pretend to love someone just because of it, that makes you a piece of shit
Not if you have no self respect and want to leech off some guy who is only interested in hot sex with a hot girl. You see all these sports stars or actors who marry hot chicks for this very reason. Look at Heidi Klum, who changes Husbands frequently. She loves to have sugar daddies. She is on her third daddy now. One was a musician who went by Seal, and the other is some guy named Ric. Now she has yet a 3rd husband. What a Ho!
if you put pleasure above feelings, its certainly not. Honey, what eco class are you from?
I know several sugar baby, sugar daddy couples. The feelings are real between them. One couple would get married if polygamy were legal. The sugar babies I know all got together with their sugar daddies in college, although two have since graduated. They are all smart, ambitious, and middle class.
then there's nothing wrong I can spot
Not at all. Money is the most important thing in life. You use him for his money, and he uses you for your body. So you both get what you want
I know several sugar baby/sugar daddy couples. The girls love it, and so do the guys.All it really is is having a boyfriend who is willing and capable of supporting you financially (sort of how many husbands do for their wives) and that you are not ready to think about getting married (because he usually already is married).Life is so much easier, especially in college, when you have a boyfriend who is financially successful.If you are attracted to older men, would like some financial help or some experiences that you can't afford, are not interested in marriage at the moment, want to maintain an independent life, and want to get physical, then being a sugar baby is perfect.
Is desiring usury a bad thing? Depends on the society and norms.For me: Yes, because it's not about the man, it's about the money, and the woman objectifying the man as a wallet for the her (ab) use. It's dehumanizing, equally so as the trope of men objectifying women solely for sex.
I think any adult who doesn’t want the responsibility of providing for themselves and working for the life they desire definitely shouldn’t try to burden someone else with it, let alone date. It’s one thing to date someone who has a lot of money, but to go out of your way to find that person is really irresponsible
I think it shows a certain lacking in character. You should be willing to work and take care of yourself. Wanting someone to take care of you is normal to a certain extent. Usually your looks or sex to get that is another matter. And you also have to ask yourself if this will get you what you want in the long run? Is that type of relationship ever going to develop into something more? What are your peers, co-workers, bosses, teachers, parents, and friends going to think? Is the potential loss of respect from others worth it? How are you going to explain it in 10 years, in 20? Things stay out there forever now with the internet. Getting past the labels people put on you if you have this type of relationship may prove extremely difficult or even impossible.
To be fair, "looks" and "sex" is how a girl catches any guy, whether it be true love, a casual hookup, or a sugar daddy.
Initially possibly but one hopes it developes. But my point was more that there's a real risk of being labeled with something that you don't want to be, or won't want to seen as down the line
You are right. If a girl is going to do the sugar daddy thing, she needs to keep it discreet.
It's not good, but I do believe being honest and transparent about your intention in the first place on these matters are not as bad as being some gold digger tricking a man into buying her stuff or some malicious wife snatching all the money by divorcing. Again, bad but not as bad as the examples I laid out.
To each their own, I don't really judge much - but I'm not a fan - I'm too damn independant, and have worked my ass off to be successful, to want to or need to depend on someone else for money...That doesn't mean that older guys aren't attractive though :-)
It's not 'bad', but kind of pathetic. The old guy has money and power for her, and she provides arm candy and sex for him. There's not much more than that. Look at Trump and Melania. It's a sugar daddy setup, but does Melania ever look happy? She barely touches him.
"She barely touches him."They are married. What else would you expect?
@WalterRadio - Whenever you see them together, she doesn't even like holding his hand, and when she does, the look on her face looks very forced.
So. I have a friend who is into sugar babies. He works heavy highway construction at night. Makes bank. His schedule is such that traditional dating is tough. He Hope's one day meet a sugar baby who is not just in it for the money. So far he hasn't. But he definitely enjoys his time with them.
Well, if you like the idea of fucking someone for money, go for it. I do not understand it, it is not for me, but if you are okay with the idea, it is fine. It is not like you would be harming anyone else by doing that. Careful though because you might end up harming yourself
selling your youth for money... if you love money or social status more than mutual sexual and emotional exchange with a partner on the same attractiveness level... it's okaybut keep in mind, the competition for sugar daddies is high and it will be in 10 years as well. Your assumed sugardady doesn't change his desire for young butts, but yours isn't like good wine that gains class and value with more time.I'm just kidding, never had such silly thoughts LOL
Are you REALLY prepared to boink a fat 75 year old geezer every other day so he'll pay your bills? I have to wonder that every time I see a girl online seeking a sugar daddy.But if you really would swallow grampa nut on the regular... who am I to judge🤷♂️Just kidding. That's repulsive. Get yourself checked out.
It depends on what kind of Sugar daddy you want, and please be realistic, because some don't have the expectations you are looking for. No 401-k plans, and a big mansion to boot, no 2017 Nissan Altima or Maxima, No Ferrari, or Large Truck, everyone is different, instead of Hamburger, you get the helper.
I wish I could say yes but I just can’t get myself to respect anyone who cheats their way through life. At the same time, I’m more ok with it if you two actually like each other and you aren’t just using him for money.
How is it anymore cheating than marrying a rich man?
You have to earn that mans love.
I would consider it less cheating through life if you marry someone you love who happens to have money. For me, I don’t care about money apart from it’s a means to an end. Hanging out with someone for their money is kinda different.
Nope. I won’t be against a friend of mine having a sugar daddy as long as he’s not married. Cause I hate cheaters and home wreckers
As long as your honest from the get go, nothing wrong.
Inherently, no, but you're certainly setting yourself up for failure for when that relationship is over as you have become overtly dependent on someone.
It’s literally cheating life... instead of working hard to achieve what you want, or at least try to marry a guy you really like that can take care of you, you take the easy road and put a price tag on yourself... there’s no respect for that.
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I consider that to be superficial. Don’t think I’d hang with people who engage in that social practice.
It's not bad because it's between you and him. Whether it's a sensible decision or not is another matter, but it's not morally wrong. Remember that it's not the same as love, and can never be fully equal or without tensions.
Most sugar daddies are men who are lonely and in their desperation turn to using their money to find female attention. Essentially the same as a guy using a lonely girl for sex
I wouldn't exactly say it is 'bad'... but I personally don't like the concept.
I told my mates i wanna sugar daddy, but i think their starting to take me seriously
Selling your body to have in exchange financial advantages... This is called prostitution...So... the question should be "Do you think prostitution is bad?"by the way I can't believe how many girls voted NO
It's weak and pathetic. In an age where women wave the feminist flag so much they should be going out and getting jobs, not selling pussy to old rich guys.
It's sad that you love money more than you love. . . love.
No all of us want to be worthless bums but many of us are ugly Plus work gives you purpose in life
I never quite understood why women want sugar daddies. From what I know they're old fat baldies. Is money really this much of a problem for you you will sacrifice your sex life for it?
The average age of women I sleep with on first instance is 23. My current girlfriend of over 2 years is not quite there yet. Usually they are 19 to 27, it has been a while since I've been with an 18 year old, and I never ask out a woman over 30 unless she is Asian (and looks in her 20's).When I first meet a girl from online, one of the questions I ask is, "Why do you like older men?" The number one answer is, "Because they know what they are doing [in bed]" or some variation. They complain about boys in their early 20's who don't know what they are doing, or have no interest in what she is getting out of it.With one 20 year old I had just met, I was probably about 44 at the time, we ended up going to a hotel. After over 20 minutes of going down on her and her having multiples, she finally had enough, sat up and exclaimed, "Now THAT'S why I like older men."
Same. I dont understand the desire for old fat men.
@kim45456 I am not fat.But to each her own. I don't like fat women or single women over 30 (a few exceptions among Asian women, but I will point out that there are many nice looking, sweet women over 30, but they are all happily married)
Yes it’s bad. Is this about collage tutions. Everytime i see this feel super sad and disgusted. You all should protest for free higher education. Usa can provide free higher education like a lot of country does. They just don’t want to
i totally agree with you
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i thank you for such nice answer
Sugar daddy works for you but your lover probably won't.
Hell if for some God forsaken reason I end up single when I'm old I'd love to be a sugar daddy. Lol
Nope. If I had a shot with a rich older woman I'd probably do the same thing. At least for a while.
No. If some rich dude wants to give you his money then so be it.
Yeah it's about the lowest of low. It's like saying you want to be a perpetual child to a rich guy, and you want to suck/fuck old man dick to get what you want. I have no respect for people who don't make their own living.
To me it feels lazy. They want stuff but don't want to work for it so they just make some one that have worked for it to buy stuff for them. So yeah, lazy as hell.
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Sugar daddy implies that the guy is much older and you are just with him for moneyI think its normal for a woman to want a man who can provide for her, but you shouldn't only want that
That may be what some people think, but it is incorrect.A sugar baby is a exactly the same as a mistress.
@WalterRadio So she just wants to be a mistress?Well thats lousy and bad then
A mistress can be a fine relationship for some.A few years ago, the president of France took his mistress to a state function instead of his wife. Americans were confused, but the French were not.
@WalterRadio Just because french are sexual deviants doesn't make it right. It is a bad thing, men need to be monogamous to women and vice versa.
"men need to be monogamous to women and vice versa"That has only ever been true in societies that execute those who aren't.
@WalterRadio If you dont believe in monogamy you probably do deserve to get executed. Its the foundation for all higher civilization.
Very few humans are truly monogamous.
@WalterRadio speak for yourself. Civilization as we know it today rests on the accomplishments of monogamous, healthy families. With sexual liberation came the destruction of the family unit, and now its resulting is catastrophic problems.
"Civilization as we know it today"Where should we start with modern civilization? How about William the Conqueror? He had a lot to do with our civilization. He is the son of Robert I of Normandy and his mistress. His son Henry I had several mistresses. There are a whole lot of important Americans who are descended from Henry I and his favorite mistress. That includes George Bush, Bill Gates, and Obama.Let's fast forward a few years to the founding of America. Thomas Jefferson's multiple women were no match for Benjamin Franklin's. President Harding had a child with his young mistress, they tried to keep that quiet. Franklin Roosevelt died in the presence of his mistress (If you were married to Elanor, you might want to die too; however, she had her own sex partner). Eisenhower's mistress was his secretary or driver, her job escapes me. Kennedy and Marilyn Monroe had quite the affair, not to mention all the prostitutes he had sneak into the White House. Bill Clinton had Arkansas State Troopers shuttling in his women. Gennifer Flowers is quoted as having asked Bill one time what Hillary thought of his women, and he answered, "Don't worry about her, she's eaten more ____ than I have."You can't support your position. Your statement is of what is not and has never been.
@WalterRadio Those are the elite members of society, there was millions of monogamous couples who aren't in the history books.
Right. There are millions.Last time I checked, the world currently has 7.5 Billion people.
@WalterRadio alright smart ass, billions of couples
Nope. It isn't that high. It was a long time ago when I saw it, but of American married couples who had been together for 10 years (I think), only about 5% had only had sex with each other. There was another point, I think 50 years, and it was higher for them, but not as high as you might think.
No it not bad, sugar daddies are super cool, they can give anything you want unlike young guys, they will fuck the hell out of you before giving you a dime.
Maybe cuz u young bitches dont deserve a dime
I don't know u so this wasn't directed to u persay but yeah
No I feel it's normal, but the question is are you just lonely? I mean ya we'd all like a partner who is rich but that's not the real reason why we want them yaknow.
no being a young single divorced mother I had a sugar daddy who supported me financially
Well if you wanna reach a goal, why going for sugar daddies?
Yes cause your using that person, especially for their money
its called a symbiotic relationship
I do not see why not everyone needs sugar some times
Depends on how you feel about going through your entire life knowing you were a prostitute
Do what you want. But a lot of men won't want to date a prostitute after.
I think everyone should waste their life any way they wish.
Yes, that makes you a hideous garbage person... however it is the smartest way to whore yourself out, maybe try a slightly better personality and be less awful or something, I don't know
How is she a "garbage awful person" for a consensual relationship in which both of them are aware that money is a big factor?
Because money is a big factor, that's not a relationship, that's a business transaction
You should be free to do whatever you want and if you want a sugar daddythat is your business
If your emotionally strong enough to be in a relationship just for material things thats up to you
Do whatever you want, it's your life.But it is really bad, mostly for you, your life, and your reputation.
But I thought women were strong, independent and don't need no man to provide for them?
Depends, are you prepared to essentially be a prostitute?
I am not a fan of that. There are other things more important
It's basically prostitution if your ok with it and he knows what it is that's between you to
Is it bad to want a sugar momma? Yes, cause no woman is going to take care of me but you're a girl and girls always have someone.
Nothing wrong with it.. as long as it's a two way street and you are meeting his needs as well. Hey go for it.
No. You want what you want.
Not if you have no integrity or morals.
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