How do you feel when a guy or girl asks you for your phone number in public?

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How do you feel when a guy or girl asks you for your phone number in public?

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Guys and girls how do you feel when a random guy or girl comes to you for your number?

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mooky06 | 479 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Master

20 d

It was random as hell!! But in a good way. I felt really flattered. He didn’t just come up to me and straight up asked for my number. He spoke to me, made me laugh and asked me if it was ever ok if he could take me out for coffee. Mind you i was working 😂😅

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MusicMayhem | 280 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Yoda

18 d

If they straight up just asked for my number I'd be like nooooo that's just weird.

If they flirted with me for a few minutes, got me laughing, and I realised she's a cool chick, then sure no problemo.

But in my experience girls only ask for your number if they're drunk or desperate and have forgotten that they can't handle rejection.

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LesterJester
Explorer

19 d

I'd feel like I need to spray the random psycho in the face with some bear spray.

I don't fk'n know you, I'm not giving you my contact details, now turn around and walk the hell away.

I'm a social butterfly like that.

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jennifer_bloom | 412 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Influencer

17 d

I like it if the guy is respectable and has waited at least 3 meetings before asking for it. Otherwise it’s annoying.

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pigoat
Xper 7

20 d

I literally only have my mom as my only contact on my phone

I would like to add more people lol

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jaystar
Xper 5

19 d

They are very bold and confident. I wouldn't give my phone number to strangers though.

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NYCstreetPhotog
Xper 5

19 d

I give out my number to 95% of the people I meet, male, female, old, young, doesn't matter to me, so when i do it for a hook-up, or pick-up it doesn't phase me.

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ReplierM
Xper 3

20 d

I'd be flattered, especially if she was decent looking

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Anonymous

19 d

As long as my family isn’t around I’m fine. They’d make too much of a big deal. They’d embarrass me.

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Daniela1982 | 51 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Explorer

20 d

No one calls me anyway so whatever!

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- sevantroz
  
  20 d
  Cheer up, I'm sure you're a lovely person, and maybe it won't be a stranger asking for you number but I'm sure some one will through themselves at you <3
- sevantroz
  
  20 d
  Just don't let yourself get down, sad and unmotivated is never attractive. Find happiness on your own first
sevantroz
Xper 3

20 d

Fucking Ace, I'd love that!

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Zweihander
Xper 4

18 d

Like I'm dreaming.. because I AM dreaming 🤦‍♂️

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bobdee
Xper 4

18 d

I feel flattered and special

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cirno
Xper 5

19 d

I dunno how i would feel no one ever asked me

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remixsat
Xper 2

19 d

TBH I kinda hate it. It puts me on the spot

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seniorghostman
Xper 4

20 d

If she looks like an ok person I’ll give it up

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ConfusedGuy96
Xper 7

20 d

Never happened to me but i would like it

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tbonetonedone
Xper 1

19 d

Proud like I'm the man

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Gedaria | 359 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Guru

20 d

No problem...

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lsjr16 | 53 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Xper 6

19 d

It is creepy

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SissyFrenchMaid
Xper 5

20 d

I'd be ok with it

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Rustxark
Xper 1

19 d

I love it

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purplepoppy | 57 opinions shared on Flirting topic. Guru · Accepted Answer

purplepoppy | 57 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Guru

If some random guy just walked up and ask I'd tell him to fuck off. For a start what's the real reason he wants my number? Is he collecting numbers to sell to telemarketers? For scamming? If he's looking for a girl friend does he really think he's so special I'm just going to hand it over within seconds or I'm so desperate I give it out to everyone.

Asker

20 d
Geez that's terrible... do you even understand the courage it takes a guy to approach a girl?
purplepoppy

20 d
There's a world of difference between approaching, having a long conversation then asking if we'd like to keep in touch and just walking up and demanding our numbers.
TheCure

20 d
Yeah your right. But there are times when I see a girl so beautiful it makes my heart stop. If I thought I could ask her out right then I would. Not for anything weird just dinner or maybe a movie.
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sevantroz

20 d
From my perspective, I wouldn't be demanding anything and the reason in which I'd ask would be clear. I'd say "hey, I think your super cute and I'd like to get to know you. Can I have your number." And oif they say no, life goes on but if they say yes, I would converse over text before doing anything else. Does that really sound bad to you? (I'm genuinely curious, please don't take this as hate)
purplepoppy

20 d
Yes it sounds awful
TheCure

20 d
No wonder there are more single people than married. We snooty girls like you who think you are better than us men.
Asker

20 d
TheCure just have a look at her profile and the type of question she ask. This will conclude everything.
sevantroz

20 d
Well that's a shame
Gotcha_Writer10

20 d
Dudes, why does this make her bad? You dont know whats she's been through, and having had a lot of this experiences with guys who blatantly ask for numbers, a lot of guys who do are either creeps or thristy af when they do it in this fashion. Same with girls. So bug off her. And "courage to ask"? Yeah, only if your so socially inept that you can't handle a simple no from a complete stranger. Its not hard.
Asker

20 d
Her response is bad not the fact that she says no. Their are ways to talk to people. Telling them to fuck off for asking you you're number is not okay.
sevantroz

20 d
Hey your right, I don't think she's bad for having her opinion. Everyone has their reasons to think a certain way. Those guys might seem a bit butt hurt, but they have their reasons too as does she. It's a matter of fact that this subject is very opinionated, I personally know girls that day had been made through random guys giving the sweet and innocent complement. Are they wrong for thinking this no, are they right, No. I have to tell you though, I don't think you can see the courage aspect from a guys pov. It's literally been scientifically proven that it is hard for men to ask girls out. Thier heart rate elevates and their brains send all sort of signals. It's not a matter of social interaction, it's a lot more. It has a lot to do with social expectations that are only on men.
sevantroz

20 d
Telling people to fuck off also isn't the best way to interact with other people who are clearly not trying to harm you. I should not have to explain that. Basic human decency.

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