I only get to see him in the hospital when we have hospital stages, last time my friend said i should join his group to help with something i went there and asked but a girl from the group told me they dont need me so i kinda missed my chance 😓 and well im pretty anxious and i kinda have low self esteem so i gotta think of a scenario and all the possibilities before doing anything 😓 and now well i only got 2 stages left to talk to him but i still couldnt figure a way to do it
Thats lovely, i wish i had the balls to do that 😓 every time i try i get super anxious and panic and just leave lol and i can't figure out what to say , like, i have no topic starter you know 😟
You can borrow mine! I'm not using them for anything at the moment!I know, I can never think of a topic starter, either, until LONG after we've parted ways!Maybe you can try to get HIM to start talking to YOU the old-fashioned way: accidentally on purpose drop something of yours in front of him and, hopefully, he'll attempt to pick it up for you and say something like, "You dropped this, miss." Then you say something like, "Oh, THANK YOU, VERY much!!! I don't know WHAT I'd do without that...", and maybe rattle off one or two things you'd need it for. Maybe one or both of those things will open a topic he can respond to. Just don't go overboard and do a LOT of talking as it MIGHT give him the idea you're a little chatterbox, "Help! I'm talking and I can't shut up!". Maybe ask him if HE ever uses one or what he'd do without it. Just make sure it's not a tube of lipstick or a tampon!Maybe you should try it a few times first with a few guys you're NOT interested in to get used to it. Build yourself up to your target goal.
I have tried many times but i always got scared and backed off , the only thing i managed to say to him in months was :" would you like a cup of tea?" because we had a kind of tea party at class and he said no 😂 i tried to find out about his interests but NOTHING i can't read him or figured anything about him 😓
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What kind of compliments can i give? TnT like i know nothing about him and he is like anti social? Nobody knows anything about him
Guys barely receive compliments so anything will do. The trick is that he has to think that it was an innocent compliment without a specific purpose. So let it sink in for a few minutes or hours and dont develop on the subject. Just pass by him and say something like "Nice jacket" and than go. A few minutes later, make it seem like you stumbled upon him again and ask your request. I have received compliments for my T-shirt and haircut before, and be sure that I haven't changed my hairstyle since (about a year ago) and I have used that T-shirt with every occasion I got for about 5 months. Oh, and don't forget to smile and if he says "Really?" say "Yes, of course" and after that you can go your way for a while. If you are not in a hurry, you can leave the conversation for the next day. And if you see that he wears the same thing that you pointed out, even though he could've changed, you know you succeded. But you cand compliment anything. Also, if he is anti social he probably spends a lot of time on his phone so try to look at what his doing and appear interested. That is a harder barrier to break, but if you manage to, you will instantly befriend him and he will start talking to you about his thing. Also, after your third encounter with him, try calling him for his middle name once (but just once if he doesn't like it, because it becomes annoyin otherwise), but the first time is cute. At that point, and even before that you can be a little flirty.
Wow that's such a unique way to do things 👀 i kinda like it ! But he's scary to approach and doesn't talk to anyone always on his phone
I know it’s hard lol. But he is not scary I promise. He would be happy to have you flirt with him.
What kind of compliments can i give without seeming too clingy like : i like your hair? .. I can't think of anything to compliment him except hair tbh 😂 or you got pretty eyes? But those are mostly compliments we give to girls I don't know
Literally anything, guys don't show it but compliments make our life so much better bc they're far and few between. But yeah if you lie his hair just say it, or his eyes or if you think he's good at something or funny.
won't that make it weird , popping up just to say : i like your hair 😓 i can't figure anything about his interests and the way he dresses is pretty simple i can't even compliment his clothes like oh thats a nice plain white shirt he'll think im making fun of him
Then ask if he'd like to hang out and get to know him and his interests, it's all about that 1st step
Usually guys that are into anime , games , metal.. etc you can figure them out from their looks , what if you just can't seem to figure what he might be into? so asking " do you like anime , are you into metal " and getting a "no " as response is a pretty dead end right? And asking different questions might make you seem desperate smh?
Well then.. i assume he's studying right? If so ask him about which class he belongs to or which course he's studying.. then sports and games boys WILL like either one of them (cuz even the most boring nerds in my class play PUBG and fortnight)... Try talking about y we boys love these games n so... Rest is upto how u tell him..
Thore some kawaii domos UwU
Hhaha yes. The green face figure is Frosch from Fairy Tail/Sabertooth
Oh i haven't watched that anime xD its too long
I think it will be weird asking someone how is your day while you never talked to them before 😅 and aw you like DOMO?
like today's so good maybe like that
Followed you sis
Domo is cute :(
He is, but I doubt that´s the way to approach a guy you like, but what do I know, I´m certainly no expert in that field lol
Dont talk to her when she's walking or with earphones on. i personally get very annoyed when someone stops me while walking or listening to music lol And well telling a joke is always a way to attract 😅 or a compliment 👀 but avoid the " you look stunning " way its so common~ find something unique to keep an impression
Have an example of something unique?
Also if he takes the conversation dont reply with yes, no mby and those short texr but just be active in this conversation rather than passive
Facts I hate woman who do that I automatically think she’s not interested and walk away
Why >~< honestly part of me wants to give it up hah