So if a quiet guy who's good at observing people, can sence the changes in girl's behavior & understand the signals?
I have only one guy friend & I like him. 😆 I'm showing all these signs & yes I'm shy, so I'm not crossing any boundaries. I've no idea he gets it or not. Sometimes it seems like we both are playing the guessing game. 😅
He is probably shy as well and doing the same thing you are doing lol so if you really like him you’re best to break the ice with him and just straight out tell him that you really like him and would you go out with me
Currently I'm waiting for him to show some interest. I can lose my crush, but can't afford to lose my best friend. 😆
If you keep him in the friend zone for a long time he might think you just like him as a friend , so hint so him someone that you want more
I guess I don't know how to flirt, 😅 but I've been trying almost everything. I'm also trying to break touch barrier.
When you touch him what’s his response? Usually touch to me is a big indicator that a girl wants more with me if I am unsure , so if he really isn’t responding to your touch then maybe he just likes you as a friend Or he is just still unsure , girls tend to hold a lot of barriers up that makes it hard for a guy to really know if they are into them or not , I use to be friends with a girl that I had the hots for but I couldn’t really read her so I always felt she didn’t like me that way but I always liked her as a friend so I didn’t want to make the move to ruin our friendship , until the one night we went out with other friends and I saw another attractive girl that I started talking to friendly conversation and then that’s when I saw her jealousy shine , so let’s just say that night ended with her and I in bed , Most girls tend to get turned on different from men do , And some girls need that hard to get shit to make them really turned on , so by me just talking to another girl is what got her to lower those barriers
When I touch his arm, he doesn't move. Most of the time he just looks deep into my eyes for a while, sometimes he smiles. When we're riding on his bike, I touch his shoulder & he's ok with that.The weird thing is - he likes to drive fast, but when I'm with him, he drives very slow & talks to me. When the road is clear, he turns his head for a second to look at me.Other girls in my college are very interested in him, but he never paid attention to them. He uses a lot of sentences with double meanings & it confuses me. Once he said - "Why these girls wear makeup? I doubt they actually look like that. I don't like them." I'm the only girl in this college who's allergic to makeup, so I can't even apply powder on my face. Was he indirectly trying to say that he likes me?Another situation - After a very busy day at college, we went to a cafe. I was eating cheesecake after like 2-3 years & I was enjoying every bite of it. He looked at me like he haven't seen me so happy like this before. He was smiling & staring at me till I finished my cheesecake. Next day we had conversation on WhatsApp about the cafe, he texted - "Your reactions were much better than the cheesecake"
It sounds like it to me , if he is making you a priority to pretty much talk to you when he can or see you then that’s indications that he likes you , Also the make up comment sounds like he was implying that you are beautiful without make up and honestly most guys love that a girl is naturally beautiful, Why he freezes when you touch his arm is a little weird but again he might just be nervous , has he been in a relationship before? Or been with a girl? Next time he stares at you tell him he has beautiful eyes and then see his reaction , if he says you have beautiful eyes as well then right there go in for a kiss , but honestly it sounds like he really likes you but for some reason he is shy as shit lol
Yeah he's very shy. 😅 I heard from one of my guy friends that he was dated a girl before, but now he's single. Many times when my guy friends jokingly bet on him saying that he'll be single this year, because he's very shy. He made it clear in front of them that he's looking for a permanent relationship & not interested in hookups or temporary girlfriends.We do share a very strong bond. We respect & trust eachother. Calls lasts for minimum 1hour.He once said that I'm the only person he feels comfortable with & nobody understands him better than me. Yet I have no idea what's going on in his mind & why he's acting like that. 🙄 Is it just because he's too shy? Or he's confused about his own feelings?
Sounds like he is just taking it slow he really likes you but he also sounds like he has some insecurities of getting into another relationship, what happened with and that first girl? But again I think you 2 will be fine , he is just slow
I don't know anything about that girl. We've been hanging out one on one for 3 months. Even our classmates started to think we're dating, but we're not & it's weird.I hope he likes me, because I like him. It's ok if he wants to take it slow. I'll wait for him. He's worth waiting for.
I know you like this guy. and you said you will wait for him , word of advice don’t wait for anybody , someone that likes you will give you the same as they are receiving , the fact that you are sitting here with question marks on your head isn’t a good sign because you aren’t receiving the answers you’re expecting to hear you are getting the answers that are still leaving you with question marks , So remember to never make excuses for someone that isn’t giving back the same in return , when we do that for someone because we like them so much , you are only hurting yourself and you start to be someone’s convenience, you got to look at yourself and realize that you deserve the same you are giving. So my word of advice is to straight out tell him that you like him put him on the spot Use this on him, Tell him hey everyone of our classmates thinks we are a couple because we are together a lot. So are we just friends or would you like us to be a couple? If he says just friends that’s your answer to move on considering you put the ball in his court. if he likes you he will be scared to lose you and pass the ball right back to you. This is better then sitting around with question marks
Well I have trust issues & that's why I never had any friends before. Now I have few friends. It took me a year to call him a "friend" 😅 & he didn't give up on me. He kept trying for 1 year to earn my trust.Now he's my best friend. If he wants to take it slow, then it's ok. I've never been so close to anyone before. People left me because I took so much time just to open up. I don't want to do this to him. Even if he doesn't like me that way, I'll still be his best friend. First he was just a normal friend, now there's something different & hopeful. 🙂
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Yeah there's a huge difference.Every love is attraction, but every attraction isn't always love.Attraction is mostly physical (body, shape), obsession, desire, etc.Love is selfless & unconditional. For example - care, trust, respect, loyalty, honesty, acceptance, etc.Oh you're writing a book! I can't wait to read it. 😃
You’re right, and there is even more to it.However, not every love is attraction. If you think of attraction, it’s the desire to “want” someone. In some relationships, all the love is there, and it’s more of a friendship than it is of that of lovers. Attraction can also be psychological, and natural chemistry; not always physical. As for love, it’s not what brings two people together, it’s what may keep them growing together.Yeah... 😏. Just remember the name - Derry A. Price
If everything fails, we do tell our best friends. Hoping that they will let him know that we've been showing attraction for so many days. 😆
That look right there, I do that a lot. 😂
Love is a bit more extreme in all of the things I mentioned and you can throw in wanting to spend a lot a time with you, hand holding and asking in depth questions about you, your family and your future. Those are just a few examples.
Yeah many guys miss to notice these things. We try to show attraction by the body language & most of the times we're clueless wheather guys notice it or not.
Glad to read this comment! 🙂Yeah I love RE games. You can feel that something is going on between Leon & Ada. That kind of signs I was talking about.
Leon has always been swooning over Ada. It's chemistry they've always had. Yep, it's easy to feel and notice.
Well me & my guy friend are stuck in the almost same kind of situation. People tell me that there's chemistry between us. I like him, but seems like he's clueless. He also cares about me a lot & always there to support me. Sometimes even I can feel that something is different.
He's probably hesitant or too shy to reveal it?
Yeah he's a bit shy, but currently more focused on studies. The way he looks at me is very different. Other girls in our college also try to flirt with him, but he doesn't pay attention. When I flirt with him, I have his complete attention, but he never reacts to it.
There's also unusual friendliness. Specifically, going out of their way to do involved favors that help you out in binds.
If that girl is already your friend, how can you tell the difference between friendship & love? (Other than shyness)
I use these "😅😊😆😂😝☺️" emoji a lot when I text the guy I like. Especially this one - 😅
well as i found out.. apparently many people do that when they like someone pnly as a good friend too. so meh.. I don't know
Yeah it's hard to tell by some texts.
Just staring doesn't always mean attraction. 😅I hope you'll figure out soon.
So what else could it have been? Her eyes were locked to my eyes the whole transaction. I even accidentally got free case a beer from it. Man you women are complicated for nothing. Just use your mouth a voice it.
We don't make any move until we're sure that the guy is interested & seem like guys are also confused with the signals. 😂😂 I wish it was easy.You can start with compliments & see how she reacts. 😅
Yeah, I do try that on a rare occasion lol
Only if the guy is worth fighting for. 😅
What if you're talking to that girl & she's not breaking eye contact? 😅I have a weird habit of staring into his eyes throughout the conversation.Will you consider it as a sign?
Same thing is happening with me. 😅 I'm showing all the signs & don't know he's get it or not.
Could just put it all out there, hard but worth it I'd say
What if she's your best friend?
That's a long time! So you can guess it when you first het to know her?
Yes and no. Most people don't really fall in love until after a few months or a years time once the honey moon period ends and shit gets real..
It's not only about the eyes. It's about the feeling. Some people don't really confess their love, they just show it by their expressions or body language or just simply by caring & being supportive.