Guys, if a woman told you she thought you were the most handsome guy she knows, would that make you more or less likely to want her?

Question

I texted a guy that has flirted with me on and off in the past after a party, and said I was sad that I didn’t get more of a chance to talk to him because I thought he was the most handsome guy at the party. He replied by saying he had a dream about me. That was over a week ago now and I’ve only gotten a couple of texts from him about random stuff (non flirty). Should I move on or wait for him to make a move? Maybe he flirts with everyone? If it was you how would you feel, maybe I seem too easy now?

Answer 1

ColHathi

Yoda

I'm wondering why you're waiting for him to make a move instead of making the move yourself?

I'd love the compliment if it were me, and it would make me want to talk to you more, but it'd also be a bit of a red flag if that's why you chose to talk to me.

Answer 2

TallAnon | 247 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Guru

He just doesn't know how to proceed. Any time he messages you, he really wants to get close to you and probably have sex with you. If you don't really respond, he'll be dejected. If you don't throw him a bone soon, he'll give up.

Asker

1 mo
I respond in the manner that he messages me, like if he is casual, I’m casual, if he flirts, I flirt. Is there something more I should be doing?
TallAnon

1 mo
If you want something, go get it, be flirty as well.

Answer 3

Asker

I respond in the manner that he messages me, like if he is casual, I’m casual, if he flirts, I flirt. Is there something more I should be doing?

Answer 4

TallAnon

If you want something, go get it, be flirty as well.

Answer 5

RastamanJah

Xper 4

Maybe try sending a message acknowledge he's busy, say you prefer movers and shakers to lazy bones, and in between he should think of a good drink for you to make for him to relax. Or a sexy selfie saying stop and smell the roses.

Answer 6

JPrez | 149 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Explorer

You’re gonna have to change your approach if you want him. Be more aggressive.

Asker

1 mo
Sadly, that will never happen, it’s not in my nature to be more aggressive than that 😞
JPrez

1 mo
That is sad to hear. Perhaps you could try things you’re good at instead. 🤷‍♂️

Answer 7

Asker

Sadly, that will never happen, it’s not in my nature to be more aggressive than that 😞

Answer 8

JPrez

That is sad to hear. Perhaps you could try things you’re good at instead. 🤷‍♂️

Answer 9

spartan55 | 324 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Master

I think your compliment was great. Flattering, but not over the top etc. I don't think that would scare him off.

Answer 10

Ripper_E | 342 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Guru

More likely, but it ultimately depends on my relationship with her.

Answer 11

93_n_on

Xper 5

No, it would still depend on whether I find her attractive or not

Answer 12

Posterboy56

Xper 5

Why are you giving up? Try again.

Asker

1 mo
What else could I even do?
Posterboy56

1 mo
Just talk to him, be like "Hey, I know I haven't heard from you in a bit, I hope we can still chat some more. I like talking to you."

Answer 13

Asker

What else could I even do?

Answer 14

Posterboy56

Just talk to him, be like "Hey, I know I haven't heard from you in a bit, I hope we can still chat some more. I like talking to you."

Answer 15

grega239 | 69 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Yoda

I'd think she's lying

Answer 16

puddin33

Xper 1

Im not vadamire putin so why she lying for

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